If they ask they ask but never be the first one to tell them why are you doing something, you never owe an explanation to anyone, if they're not asking why are you doing it then never try to defend yourself. Stay committed to this mentality and you will be free, nothing can stop you. Because the number one reason why you can't express yourself is because you're always thinking about what people are doing to say, you're too shy, you think you're special, you don't want to look bad, you think they're thinking about you all the time. The truth is they don't even care about you, they don't even care about your life so stop thinking that what they think matters, the only thing that matters is the thoughts that is running inside of your head, is it helping you or is it making you suffer?
You will feel jailed if you always think you need people to like you, you will feel weak if you're always thinking about what people say. You don't have any idea how powerful you can be if you will never care and just do what you need to do. Stop trying to sell yourself, stop trying to please everyone, stop trying to look good or cool all the time, you don't need it, just be yourself and focus on what you really want in life. What they say is none of your business, the only business you need to be dealing with is improving your life and trying to win. You can never win if you will always try to explain yourself to other people, stop caring and keep pushing as simple as that. Stop defending yourself all the time because it's only making you look guilty or something, it's only making you look insecure. Just let it be, let everything happen as it is about to happen, do it your way and never try to explain everything.
Once you made a decision... never explain yourself, just decide and move forward, never worry about what other people may think, it's their fault if they're disturbed by your actions. For as long as you're not doing something bad... never try to explain yourself. Mind your own business and never care about how they feel about what's happening with your life, it's their fault if they can't sleep because of what you did. They should be minding their own business so if they're wasting time for you then it's their problem not yours. Never feel bad if they can't accept your decision, never feel sorry if they're bothered, they did that to their own brain, they distract themselves with a simple thing so just move on and be happy with your life.
At the end of the day you will be judged, they will belittle you, they will criticize you, they will think you're not good enough. The only thing that matters is how you see yourself, the only thing that matters is you must feel confident no matter what.
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