There will be times when you need to make a decision fast but you're so confused and doubting yourself. You're doubting yourself and worrying if your decision is right or wrong. There is no wrong decision for as long as you will not regret it, there is no wrong decision if you will make a stand for it and live with it. But if you're still confused on what to do then it's better to just go to what you can control. What do I mean by this? for example if your friend wants to visit your house but you're doubtful because it's pandemic time and your friend might be a carrier of covid 19, you're so worried and confused if you will let him in because you're afraid that he might bring the disease into your house but at the same time you don't want to offend him because he is your close friend. You're in a 50-50 situation, you can't decide so the best thing to do is focus on what you can control. And that is to not let him in, that's where your power is, if you will try to get lucky and let him in and just hope that he is not a carrier then that's staying away from what you can control, that's not your strength, you are ignoring your power to decide for your own good. And this is bad for you because you will regret in the end that you didn't decide for your own good.
This is what happens to most people that's why they always live in regrets... they focus on what they can't control. If you will always think what people will say and how they will feel then you're not focusing on what you can control, it's weakness. Focusing on hope if you can do something is weakness. Just like in chasing a dream, you're so confused why you're so working hard and yet nothing is happening, if you will focus on worries and impatience then that is out of your control, you will no longer work hard. Because success is not in your hands, you can never force it to come into your life whenever you want to. The only thing you can focus on is your effort and work ethic, it's your ability to work every single day. Stop wishing for success because you will only get frustrated if you can't get it, stop looking for results and stop begging for it. Just because you're working hard doesn't mean it will be given to you right away, if that's the case then every person in this world will just work hard and ask for what they think they deserve. But success doesn't work that way, you will be tested, your perseverance will be tested, you will fail a lot of times and the world will try to make you quit. Life will make a joke on you, you feel you're almost there but suddenly a new problem will come. And that's why you need to focus mainly on what you can control so that you will never get frustrated, so that you will never feel downhearted and you will be able to work harder again.
You have the power to control your life, and you will become stronger if you will focus on what you can control. You can never force people to like you, you can never force them to subscribe in your you tube channel, you can never force a friend to feel the same way as you, you can never command the world to give you what you want. All you can do is focus on what you can control and that is using your body to make your situation a little bit better. It's better to be doing something rather than waiting because that's focusing on what you can control. It's better to be applying for a job rather than asking a friend to help you to get a job, your friend might not help you and you will get disappointed but if you will do it your way then you are using your power, and success is more attracted to a person who is not looking for fast results, success and luck are attracted to a person who is not begging for success and luck.
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