THE FIRST CUT IS THE DEEPEST

If you're just new in something, let's say you're a rookie in a romantic relationship... let's say she is your first girlfriend and you really love her... when she break up with you, you will really fell it, it will make you cry, sometimes you would even think of drinking a poison. Don't do it, only weak people do that, the first cut is really the deepest.

That's life... the first time your experience something... it will really affect you, the first negative experience is the deepest, it's the most painful. You feel like your world is going to end but the moment you already recovered and move on.... you will just laugh at that experience, you will even wonder why they hell are you crying like a baby before.

In order to become strong in life... you need to be cut a lot of times so that next time you don't feel anything about it anymore. The more you experience pain the more you become stronger. And even if it's your first time... just deal with it, endure it because you're on the process of becoming stronger.

That's why champions who never lost before became depressed the moment they tasted the first defeat, they can't recover easily, they were so devastated, it's because it's the first time they experience that kind of emotion, they were newbie to failing.

You will be stunned if it's your first time to experience that bad experience, you don't know what to do, you don't know how to react. But that's ok, it's better to experience it now than to experience it later, at least you already know something, at leas you already know how to handle the situation next time.