A goal that you will really pursue no matter what, a goal that you will really do even if the whole world is against you, a goal that you're chasing secretly.
A goal that is about trying and not about winning. Because most people will focus on trying to reach their goals that's why they forgot to do the long process, they're always looking for shortcuts and easy ways that's why they can't move, they don't want to work hard, they're not even trying. If you will focus on your own personal goal then there's a bigger chance that you're going to win.
Focus on trying, if your basketball coach is only giving you a few minutes of playing time or sometimes even benching you the whole game... make your own personal goal. Try shooting ten times every game, it doesn't matter if you miss all the ten shots, what matters is you shoot ten times. It's your personal goal, never care if your coach shouts at you, never care if your teammates blame you... just shoot ten times every game, do it. Because at the end of the day they don't believe in you, you're not shining, you're not succeeding, what's the point of being afraid? what's the point of caring about what they say? shoot ten times and feel happy with it, it's your own personal goal, it's your own strategy, even if the star player is asking for the ball... don't pass it, shoot it even if you're not confident, shoot it even if there is a big risk. It's your life, you can do whatever you want with it, all the people around you was not included in your goal, it's your own personal goal, forget about winning and losing and just do it.
If you're having a hard time getting clients on the internet and you're getting frustrated, again there is a solution for that... create your own goal, forget about winning or losing and just call 100 clients a day. Ask for 100 clients a day about work, it doesn't matter if you get zero, what matters is you are chasing your own personal goal. Trust me, something will click, you will get a client in just a matter of time, the law of averages will work. It's simply about numbers, it's your own personal goal, you need to call 100 clients a day, it doesn't matter if it is hard, it doesn't matter if it's too tiring... just do it. It will give you confidence, it will give you a very strong momentum, it will attract success. The more you try, the more chances of winning.
If you're having a hard time losing weight and you can't figure out what to do anymore... again, create your own personal goal, detach from the outcome and create your own personal goal, try running for 30 minutes a day, do 50 push ups a day. This is more realistic, this is more fun because you're not focusing on the results anymore which means you will have more control. Just do it everyday, try to run for 30 minutes a day and 50 push ups a day, it is doable right? do this for 1 straight year and you will see an amazing change in your body.
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