Everybody wants to become happy, everybody wants to feel good that's why they're always looking for pleasures, instant gratification etc. They buy things that they don't really need or want, they do what other people do because they think it's fun, they consume a lot, they want to be liked or become popular because they think it's the key to happiness. What people don't know that the key to happiness is to stop looking for it, stop chasing it, stop being needy of that feeling because it's only temporary same as the sadness or any kind of feeling. Any feeling will never stay forever. You will become sad, depressed, you will feel negative, you will not be in a mood, you will have anger issues, you will get disappointed and at the same time you will also feel thankful, grateful, successful, abundant, appreciative and any other feelings. As a human being you are suppose to feel everything, don't resist any kind of emotion and just embrace it... that's the key to happiness.
Never go outside, never have a barometer or standards for happiness. Never get jealous, never gauge your happiness with the amount of success, praises, likes, money that you are getting. Happiness is just a state of mind, you can become happy by just watching a comedy film. You can become happy by just kissing your loved ones. Happiness was too easy to achieve, all you have to do is be alive, appreciate what you have and even if you have nothing... feel happy that you're still alive. Being alive is a blessing but most people can't appreciate their lives because they're looking too much outside of them, they're too dramatic and picky.
Happiness will come naturally, don't look for it, don't look for something as a scapegoat to make you happy, don't look for external things, don't think that something has to happen first before you become happy. You can become happy now even if you're badly broke or nobody loves you. Happiness is self love, take care of yourself, groom yourself, do everything in your power to put yourself on a better position. Make yourself stronger, mentally fitter, nicer, cleaner, faster etc. Make sure you are optimizing your character little by little and you will feel so happy. Focus on yourself and the rest will attract, happiness will attract, money and love will attract.
It's not about having a lot of things, people or money in your life. It's about looking inside of you and understanding that you don't need to be needy of anything or anyone. Happiness is feeling abundant without having to compare yourself with anybody. If you can just be happy living everyday and simply give your very best then you will become very happy. It's your journey, you can do whatever you want to do with your life, you can become really creative, you can do it your way, you can create your own set of beliefs that will protect your sanity. You can become try as hard as you can, you can feel nothing about failure, you can play with your life but make sure play it the right way. Happiness is not about achievement, it's about appreciation.
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