You don't need to tell everyone why are you doing something, you don't need to excuse yourself, they're not even asking. You don't need to seek for validation or any approval. You do it because you do it, you do it because you feel it is the right thing to do. Stop thinking if they are happy with what you do, stop thinking if you are right or wrong. Just keep moving forward and if they can't stop you then that's their big problem, just live your life and be yourself, do what you keep doing and never think about what people say. Because all that explaining does is make you weak, it's making your energy submissive and ready to follow commands. If you know you are right and not breaking any law then what the hell are you being scared of?
If they don't like you they don't like you, if they like you they will like you even if you're making a lot of mistakes. It is what it is, some people will judge you and some people won't. You need to be ok with what other people think because it is normal, that's part of life. Just do what you need to do and shut your mouth, stop talking and stop trying to play humble, stop trying to explain yourself. If they get offended so be it, if they don't like it so be it but never explain yourself, never try to be nice all the time because people will only feel that you're submissive and cannot make decisions without any resistance. Try to feel free all the time, do what you need to do and stop acting like you're not allowed to do anything. If you are doing it for yourself so be it, accept it, don't think about anyone else. Stop trying to feel guilty, stop feeling wrong. If your intention is good and you didn't hurt anyone then why the hell will you try to explain yourself?
At the end of the day not all people like you, most of the time most people will question you or hate you. So be it, never care about their feelings, never care if they don't agree with you. Never explain yourself because you're only giving them power by doing that, explaining yourself means you are not free and you still need a lot of validation from other people. You do it then it's done, never attach yourself with anything. DO what you need to do and feel good with your decisions. If they don't like what you said or did then that's their problem, if they can't stop you then it's their problem. Just be yourself all the time, stop explaining yourself and always give your best every single day.
Because they don't need your explanation at all, sometimes they already understand you but you're still explaining yourself. You don't owe anyone an explanation if they don't ask for it. And if they ask you to explain yourself then explain yourself with a calm voice and a confident answer. No need to rattle, never make yourself look weak, don't kneel to anyone, you are the owner of your life, you can do what you want to do with it, you can live it your way. Because explaining yourself means pleasing people, it means wanting to be accepted. So what if they can't accept you? they're not the basis of your power, people is not the source of your greatness. all you need to do is be yourself, focus on your own strength and they can never control you.
Be ok being labeled as wrong or weak, never attach yourself with people's perception of you. How you perceive yourself is the most important thing, how you think about yourself is the what matters the most. Stop explaining yourself all the time, stop feeling cautions and always feel free.
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