Believing in yourself is very easy, it's just a philosophy, create an idea. Chase something and work harder, that's it. You don't believe in yourself because you're too hooked with the results not with the action. If you will take matters into your own hands, if you will do it your way, if you will take full responsibility of your actions and blame nobody for your life then you will have more confidence. That is why you need to keep getting better everyday, that is the only way to become insanely confident. This is about execution and nothing else, those who can move a lot, those who can take risks without being afraid of failing will gain more and more confidence and belief in himself. Don't be afraid of what people might say, as long as you are afraid of what they're thinking... you will never become great, you will never be able to express yourself and that only means you don't have confidence in yourself. If you want to become confident don't be afraid of hate, embarrassment, dislikes, curses, critics. Don't look for permission, don't look for approval and just be yourself. Know what you need to do, know what you want and get it no matter what. Take actions, keep moving forward because that will give you power, take risks no matter what and never care if you fail, never care if you come up short because you can try again next time, there is no limits here, you can try as much as you can and nobody can stop you. You will make it click next time, something will go right.
IF YOU DO WHAT YOU SAY YOU'RE GOING TO DO
It's hard to do what you say you're going to do because you already felt accomplished after saying that you're going to do it. When it's time to take actions you feel really uncomfortable. Discipline is the key, if you can keep your promises, if you can be a man with honor and doesn't lie then you will have supreme confidence in yourself because you just knew you can do whatever you need to do at any given moment. Make no excuses, that's how to double your confidence, take full responsibility of the situation, do what is hard, do what most people are afraid to do. Be the power, be the source of strength, don't rely on someone because the moment you do what... you will lose your power. Trust that you can survive anything no matter what, trust that you can do it your way, believe that you can command your fate through sheer willpower alone. This is not about feeling good, this is about knowing that you can try, knowing that you can survive anything, knowing that you can fight, knowing that you don't need any permission to do something. If you do what you say you're going to do... you will trust yourself even more, you will become mentally tough, you will become the person that people need, you will trust yourself because you just knew... no difficulty can ever stop you.
It's easy to believe in yourself, just work hard, take full ownership of your life, don't let people command you. Get better everyday, work on your skills, work on your craft, be early, be fast and never let people step on you.
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