Loving yourself means being in the moment, it means you are aware of what you are doing. You are conscious all the time and you take care of yourself, you prioritize yourself first before anything else. You don't care about what people say, you never care about their hatred and selfish acts, you never care about what they think of you. If you really love yourself then you will do everything to make yourself better. You will exercise, diet, learn, make sacrifices, stay away from toxic people, meditate, get richer, get stronger. You will make the right choices that will make you reach your full potential. You will be selective of your thoughts because any thought will make an effect. It may attract or repel something. If you are thinking negatively then you are pushing away positive experiences, if you are thinking positively then you are attracting the right people and circumstances that will give you a much better life. If you really love yourself then you will have high attention to details about your thoughts, you will be mindful and will stay present all the time. Stop harming yourself with pleasures, it's making your life difficult. The unhealthy foods, activities, thoughts, habits, vices are putting your life in a dark place. I know you are not perfect, you get tempted every once in a while but you must take care of yourself more than you harm yourself. That's why I recommend you to start loving yourself now, you can do it with hard work, sacrifices and delaying instant gratification. Work on yourself, little by little make yourself stronger and better, how to do that? by preparing, learning, exercising, fasting and any other activities that will make you stronger and better. Prioritize yourself before anything else, stop entertaining negative thoughts, people and situations. Stop being engaged with too much drama and noise, you're better than that, focus on what's more positive and beneficial, focus on getting better for yourself. Do it for yourself, every time you work hard and push to make your life better... you are rewarding yourself. Just because something is difficult doesn't mean you're punishing yourself, just because something is boring doesn't mean it's not contributing to your growth. The harder the activity like exercise, study and working on your skills is contributing to your evolution. You will become a different person every time you love yourself and focus on boring activities. Pleasures means trap, it is not real happiness. Too much pleasures and instant gratification is putting yourself on an uglier situation that is very hard to escape. If you really love yourself then make sacrifices, do something that is healthier and more meaningful. Never waste time, never procrastinate, stop wasting your energy for nonsense actions that are making your life 2 times harder. DO what is hard, even if it is uncomfortable at least it's giving you an edge, at least it's setting you up for a brighter future. It's only hard for now but eventually it will be easier later. Just do it, just make sacrifices and do what is obviously more important.
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