Winning is not about getting an award or getting praises from other people, it's not about winning a championship or getting a lot of money and fans. Winning is simply having the ability to control your life, it's freedom. A bench player that didn't play for a single minute on court will feel like a garbage even though his team won a championship. It's the reality, most players were faking, they don't want to look bad, they don't want to look sad but the truth is they were so mad and sad even if their team won because they didn't even play. Look at Jeremy Lin, he won a championship but he didn't even feel that he's a part of it. It's because he didn't even play during the finals, he's just watching on sideline and wishing for his coach to use him. It's the truth, most players can't admit it, some players were just pretending that they are happy but the truth is they are not. It's better to be playing on a small and unpopular league but you're having a playing time rather than getting money and playing on the big league but you can't even play at all. Your goal should be how to move, how to do it your way, how to express yourself and use your skills... that is how to become a real winner.
So forget about popularity, forget about money, forget about not getting too much appreciation from other people. Some celebrities can't even breathe because they don't have freedom anymore, they can't do what they want to do because they don't have the means or freedom to do it. The best thing that you can do to make yourself a winner is to do it your way, take matters into your own hands and don't ever let other people win for you, you can win by yourself. Because if you trust other people to win it for you... you will only get disappointed if they fail you. It's a weakness because your victory relies on their hands. You have the strength to win, you have the skills, you have the power, it's on you if you're going to go hard and do it yourself or not. Being a winner is very simple, take risks and never let other people affect your decision. Make a stand for your decision, win or lose... live by it. It only takes guts to become a winner, have a thick skin, face what needs to be faced, do it your way and never let other people do it for you. Because the people you trust can make a mistake too, you too can make mistakes, it's better if you will fail because of your fault and not because of other people's fault.
You will only feel free if you will set your life up for something that needs your service and skills, you will only feel happier if you're the person in charge. Look at those bums and clowns that are slaves of politicians... they cry and freak out when their idol didn't win the election, they don't know what to do anymore, they feel so sad, they freak out. But if you will do it your way, if you will walk alone and do what you feel is right... you will feel more happier because you will experience so much freedom, you will become more creative, you will be able to express yourself more.
So forget about popularity, forget about money, forget about not getting too much appreciation from other people. Some celebrities can't even breathe because they don't have freedom anymore, they can't do what they want to do because they don't have the means or freedom to do it. The best thing that you can do to make yourself a winner is to do it your way, take matters into your own hands and don't ever let other people win for you, you can win by yourself. Because if you trust other people to win it for you... you will only get disappointed if they fail you. It's a weakness because your victory relies on their hands. You have the strength to win, you have the skills, you have the power, it's on you if you're going to go hard and do it yourself or not. Being a winner is very simple, take risks and never let other people affect your decision. Make a stand for your decision, win or lose... live by it. It only takes guts to become a winner, have a thick skin, face what needs to be faced, do it your way and never let other people do it for you. Because the people you trust can make a mistake too, you too can make mistakes, it's better if you will fail because of your fault and not because of other people's fault.
You will only feel free if you will set your life up for something that needs your service and skills, you will only feel happier if you're the person in charge. Look at those bums and clowns that are slaves of politicians... they cry and freak out when their idol didn't win the election, they don't know what to do anymore, they feel so sad, they freak out. But if you will do it your way, if you will walk alone and do what you feel is right... you will feel more happier because you will experience so much freedom, you will become more creative, you will be able to express yourself more.
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