Don't get mad if someone is annoying you or making you feel bad. Don't seek for revenge if you feel that someone disrespected you in some way. Everyone has an important role in your life, it is up to you how you look at anyone, if you think that they are only making you stronger then good for you. If you think that they are making your life miserable then it is bad for you.
If anyone is challenging you, if anyone is making your life miserable... that person's role is to make you stronger. You just need to see the positive side. He is making you grow, you just need to think positively. If you want to get rid of someone in your life but you can't for the moment because he is in control... you need to get better, you need to find a way. It only means, you need to make a stand and making a stand means you are getting stronger. You were able to make decisions on your own and you don't care about what might happen next... you just want to live your life your way.
Any person that you came across can either make you weaker or stronger. It is up to you how to use them. It is up to you how to translate their roles with your life.
A kind mother can make you weak because she can give everything to you, she may turn you into a spoiled brat who can't accept lost or misfortune, she can made you a weak and fragile human being who can't adapt to his environment because she is giving you too much comfort. But again, it depends on your approach. It depends on how you look at her treatment, you can become strong too even if she is giving you everything because you want to make her proud, you can become strong too because she gave you too much confidence and you can use that confidence to face difficult challenges in life.
But a strict and tough mother can make you a better person too because she is making you tough, she is showing you that life is tough and you need to get tougher. She is showing you a tough way but will be very effective in the future, she is showing you a different preference, a unique approach that will make you very adaptive to any situation that you are in.
So if you meet a person may it be a person that is difficult to handle and associate yourself with... don't panic, don't feel bad, remember that he has a role in your life, he can teach you some lesson. He can make you stronger if you will think that he has a role in your life, he can challenge you, he can make you tougher and smarter, all you need to do is stop overreacting and read what is going on.
Any person can contribute something to your life, the key is to always think positive and find a way how to make your life better.
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