Most people want love not knowing that it will be the cause of depression, unproductivity, expectation that is not healthy, waste of time and being sad when not get. Love is overrated, you don't need it, what you need is self love not love from other people. You are enough. If someone doesn't like you so be it. I am not saying that you need to avoid it, if it's there it's there, accept it but if it's not there then don't care at all and just focus on improving your life. The focus must be yourself, love will come, the right people will come, you don't need to chase it because that will only put you in trouble. It is overrated, looking for likes on social media will only make you depressed especially if you don't see the person you're waiting for to like your posts, it will affect your mentality, it means you are dependent from somebody to become happy and if it is that the case then you will get weaker and slower. What you need is love to yourself, love your personality, love who you are and that is enough. If you can become happy without other people then you will become attractive. The key is to love yourself more, get better every single day and always prioritize yourself, make your growth your goal and never loo outside just to become happy. You can become happy with your own journey, the right people will come along, you don't need to look for it anymore. Go all in with yourself. Stop spending your time chasing people, chasing validation and looking for acceptance. Once you accepted yourself you will be accepted anywhere, all you have to do is love yourself and take care of yourself, grow as much as you can. Challenge yourself to improve, learn something, get stronger, earn more money, promote yourself and never let anybody be the root of your happiness because that will make you weak and easy to manipulate. You have to feel happy, genuinely happy being you, you don't need to look for more, you don't need to beg for love, just focus on taking care of yourself, doing the right things to improve your life and the right people for you will come and join your journey. Love is so overrated, don't look for attention because you will look needy and unattractive, if you want to feel better... mind your own business and never look for people to make you happy because you can do it by yourself. Train yourself to be ok not getting love from other people, that will make you stronger, colder and independent. Just be yourself, celebrate your life, that is how to get stronger and happier. Love is cheap, it's not that valuable at all, looking for it from other people is not helping you, it will only make you sad and weak even more. Even respect, don't look for it, people will respect you if you deserve it, you don't nee to please or impress people, you just need to become effective and disciplined and you will get it.
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