The moment you do it for them... it is over, the moment you life your life for other people... you are doomed. If you are looking for applause, validation, likes or appreciation then you're a slave, if you don't want to fail because you are afraid to look terrible then you will never experience greatness ever. Once you do it for them... you are not yourself anymore, you will be lost, you will have more regrets and become scared for the rest of your life because you will be attached with their expectations and that will destroy your mentality. You need to do it your way even if it is painful, risky, scary and not permitted by everyone, you have to go against the flow and never be scared of being ridiculed by everyone, if you get ridiculed it means you're on the right path. Even if you're failing for now, you will learn from that and experience and use it as a fuel to get you going. Try and try again and never give up, do it for yourself, do it because you feel it in your heart. Do it for yourself because it is your life, never be scared if you will lose followers, people, money, respect or help, you don't need any of that. What you need is an evidence that you get courageous in your life. You don't need to fight fear, you just need to feel it and it will go away. Everything is just a feeling, failure or success is just a feeling, it is not about the result, some people still feel normal after winning and not excited at all, some people are happy after losing because they knew they gave their all and they will have zero regrets in the end. Control your emotion not the external elements, control your thoughts because once you were able to master it... you will become unstoppable, you don't need to become special here, you just need to act like a brave person, fake it until you become it. They will never know if you're just faking your courage, once you manage to act like it... it will become real, you don't need to feel brave, you just need to act brave, it means you need to try and go with all your might, stay in the moment, never try to rush things, think slowly and never let anything rush you. Follow your instincts if you're not sure, follow your heart if you're confused, just do it, do it without any influence from the outside, do it because you know it is the right thing. Never do it for them, do it for yourself and you will become happier than ever, you don't need to prove yourself to anybody, you don't need to explain yourself, once you made a decision... make a stand for it and never be afraid to disappoint people. You have the power to take full control of your life, you don't need any permission or validation from other people, you are in control here, you just need to take the first step and then follow through, make a stand and never change your decision at all.
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