When you are struggling, when it is hard, when you feel like it's a punishment... be happy because it means you are progressing, it means you are making a mark, you are doing what is right, you are working hard and the results are not yet coming in because it' all part of the process, remember the real result is now what you get, it's the person you become, it's your transformation, it's you doing whatever you can to improve a little bit. Most people think that life is all about winning that is why if they can't win they become depressed and weak, they quit right away, they think that looking for an easy way out is smart but the truth is they are not getting anything from it, they are not improving mentally, they are not growing. You will only grow through discomfort, through showing up even if it is hard, through believing in yourself when nobody believes in you, it's going through hell, a lot of pressure, a lot of problems and adversities... that is when you grow and get stronger. This is not about looking cute and perfect, this is about consistency and discipline. Get use to discomfort, disappointments, irregularities, hardships, adversities, embarrassment, defeat and repetition. You need to go through what you need to go through in order to make it in life. Don't be afraid of any difficulty... just show up and do whatever it takes to survive and win. If you can't win so be it but once you work, once you live with your own philosophy, once you stay consistent no matter what... you will win, as simple as that. This is not about talent or luck, this is not about being smart or pretending to be intelligent, this is about resiliency, consistency and believing that you can grow on any kind of difficult situation. If it is hard then applaud yourself because you are winning mentally, you are growing, feel the pain and never give up. Always push forward no matter what, always give everything you've got. Focus on what you can control and that's it, that is showing up, working hard, staying consistent, being committed and not making excuses. Don't just act like you can get away with anything, don't just act like you can afford to get lazy and not get punished with it. You are what you do, you are what you think, stop blaming people for not making it, stop the regrets and just keep moving forward no matter what. That's all you need to do and you will be ok in life. Focus on yourself, you are there because you did something in the past. Just give your best, make a decision even if it is not the best one and be ok with it, live and die with it, try to make it right. Believe in your decisions in the past, every decision is the right decision if you will make a stand for it. Just live, keep surviving and show up, you are progressing even if it is hard, don't worry because something will click, it's only just a matter of time before everything gets better again.
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