If you need something all the time you are needy especially if you want it for free or you are not willing to work for it. Some people feels so entitled that they can get whatever they want without having to work for it. Stop needing anything and just do the work for the sake of getting stronger and not getting any recognition. If you don't need anything from other people then you are the real winner here. You want respect, kindness, appreciation, recognition and nice treatment from them because you are weak, you think that happiness comes from them but the truth is real happiness is coming from you. You can get it by just thinking right and doing what makes you better. Get stronger by not looking for any sort of validation, stop looking for permission and you will become free. Stop asking anything from somebody and you will become powerful and impossible to manipulate. The truth is most people can control you because you are always reacting and being emotional, if you stop being emotional then you will never be controlled by anyone. Just be yourself, just do your thing, it is better to be alone than to feel weak in the company of others. If you don't need anything from them then you will win, as simple as that. Just focus on trying to get better everyday, master your mind, stop being emotional, stop thinking about the people that you hate, consider them as nothing, consider them as useless in your life that you don't even need to give any attention. Just be yourself everyday, be happy whether you are winning or losing and even if you can't become happy just live, just survive, life is not about happiness, it is simply about breathing. So if you can make it simple then everything will become a lot easier. Life is simply about breathing and surviving, you take care of your life and you're good, the reason why it gets difficult is because you are envying someone who has something that you don't have, stop comparing yourself to others and you will feel happier than ever. Focus on your own, focus on what you have and just try to make it a little bit bigger everyday. You don't need what you don't have, it's ok to dream about things but don't feel so sorry if you can't have it. There is no really pressure to live life, you are the only one who is putting a lot of pressure on yourself by living with the expectation of others. Just stay in the corner if you need to trying to grow by yourself, trying to get stronger and not needing anything from anybody. This is not about ego, this is about responsibility for yourself and not letting any useless people or things make you feel bad. Just live and hustle and that's it. You don't need friends, you don't need to be liked, you just need to be you and the right people will come along. People who really like you will treat you well.
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