Most people want to be liked, the want to be recognized and appreciated that is why their happiness is fleeting and go away so fast. If you are really good, happy, hardworking and winning then people will know it even if you don't broadcast it, they will know it in the long run, you can never hide it, they will see you even if you are hiding, they will know what you are really about. They will naturally talk about you, the praise will become organic and real. Most people want likes so badly to the point where they are lying to themselves. Stop looking to get recognized and just be yourself, if you are really about it then you don't need to talk about it, the news will spread naturally without forcing it. You don't need to feel needy of recognition because only weak people do that, if you are really that good then you are really that good, as simple as that. You don't need to force anything because people will know if you are legit or not. The need to be seen is for the weak, the need to feel special because other people approve it is for the people who have low EQ. You know in yourself if you are really something or not. You don't need to become popular, you don't need to et them know what you are all about. If you really know yourself then you will live with it and people will know it in the long run, they will talk about you without you knowing about it. They will see your works, they will feel your impact, they will discover your true identity. Those who are needing attention badly are fake, they don't practice what they preach, they do it for the sake of impressing people. If you are doing something to impress people then you're in big trouble my friend. You don't need recognition, you need execution. That is where power belongs, that is were greatness resides. Keep on moving forward because that is good enough to make you happy. Happiness doesn't come from external validation, if you keep thinking that way then you're in big trouble my friend, you will always feel like a loser when nobody is there to cheer you, you will feel unappreciated when nobody is talking about you, that will affect your mind and health, that will make you miserable. Do it for the passion and love, do something because you really want it and you don't need other people to notice you. Just do it with fun, do it because it is your way of life not the other way around trying to please and impress people. You are real if you don't need recognition, you are legit if you are happy with the process and not with the likes and attention. What they say will make you weak, if they are praising you you will become soft, they will control you, they will have power over you because they hold your emotions. If you are really that good then you don't need to fight for attention anymore.
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