By trying to control everything, comparing yourself to others, imagining that people are expecting something from you, by trying to look great all the time, by getting jealous about people who are making it in life and trying to be like them, by thinking about what people say... you are the one who is giving yourself imaginary pressure. You don't need to be liked, you don't need to perform for them. If you want to feel good, confident and powerful... stop letting them control you. Because every time you think about other people, every time you feel something from them... you are letting them control you. Live for yourself, live for your own greatness... your own pace, rules and technique. Never let anyone control you because that will be the start of your falter. They can say something about you, they can disrespect you, they can get better than you but don't ever let them control your mind. Once they control your thoughts they will control your feelings and you won't be able to live freely anymore. If you can't control your mind then they will control eat, you will be left with nothing, you will drain your energy, you will self destruct. Never feel anything from somebody because it will eat a lot of your time and energy. Thinking about them, trying to prove yourself, trying to become relevant... these will kill you. It's ok if you are slow, it's ok if you are not progressing that much but don't ever waste your time for useless activities that will never give you something in return. Watch yourself... are you growing from that? or are you getting worse? something fun, easy and entertaining will never make you grow. You are only wasting your time and energy. Stop giving pressure to yourself, it happens by overthinking and focusing on other people. If you will focus on how you feel, think and do then great things will happen to you, as simple as that. Overthinking will never get the job done, it will only make you sick and weak. Focus on what you can do and just let people be themselves without judgement. Never let any disrespect control you, never let any bad treatment make you feel something negative. You are the only one who is hurting yourself with your thinking and wrong judgement. Life is a fight, it's a constant fight between you and negative thoughts that will bring you down. It's a constant battle inside of your head, you will never be able to reach your full potential if you let temptations and wrong thinking control you. The only thing you need to think about is how to improve and make your life better. Don't get bored forging yourself into a powerful person, spend more time for yourself no about what other people think. Spend more time trying to focus on the things that do really matter not on the things, thoughts and activities that will only drain you and gives you leftovers.
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