There is something you can control now and that is where your focus should be going instead of focusing on what you can't control. You're too focused on where you don't have power over with that is why you are lost and feeling powerless. You can't control sickness, bad luck, surprises, failure, what people say and what people think, you can't control their behavior the only thing you can control is your actions and thoughts. Focus on your own life and you will feel how powerful you are, you will see that you can do a lot. Something will show up, something will click if you keep on pushing until you win. Focusing on what you can control is not comfortable because your mind will always wander everywhere, it will look for other things because it will get bored focusing in your own actions for your life, your mind will constantly look for distraction because you trained it to behave that way since you were young. You constantly feed it with information that doesn't serve you. You love disturbances and different subjects, news or events that doesn't resonate with your own purpose. The real progress is not letting what you can't control control you. If you want power you must have insane discipline and that means you need to focus on where your power resides and it resides only in your mind and actions. Your reactions, decisions, results comes from the inside so never blame anybody for not getting what you want, you are where you are because of your decisions every now and then. The real road to success is battling the temptations. Everyday you are tempted to think about your enemy neighbor, you are thinking about your idols which will never help you, you are thinking about calling it a day after working for only 1 hour, you are thinking about eating some junkfood to feed your appetite, you are thinking about shortcuts and controlling everything outside of your vicinity, in other words you are trying to focus on what you can't control which is making you weaker even more. If you want power focus on the present moment. Don't complain and act like a victim, don' act powerless like asking from someone what you wanted in life because you can never control their actions and decisions. Don't ask for praises, sympathy, awards, help, likes and recognition because you can never control their decisions and emotions. The only thing you can control is your stillness, belief in yourself and small actions that will give you an advantage in the future. Just like courting a girl that you like, you can never force here to like you, the only thing you can control is your emotions. Regulate it, don't feel needy because it will repel her, don't look too desperate because that us unattractive to here. Control your effort, control your availability and words. Fool her, make her believe, make here blush but don't ever expect too much because that is outside of your control. Just like success, work hard and give your all but don't ever focus on getting the award or decision from other people to promote you or grant you the victory because that is outside of your control.
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