Stop feeling special, stop feeling entitled, stop feeling so high and just stay humble and focus on what you're doing. You want to feel powerful because you want people to respect you, you want approval, you want to be praised and that's why you're feeling stressed and weak all the time, that's why you're always feeling bad of yourself. Always think that you are nobody and the pressure will be released, never think that you need a special treatment and you will be free, you will avoid controlling, you will never feel sensitive anymore. But of course never let people disrespect you but never let any small things offend you because that will only cause a lot of stress into your life. Keep moving forward and never stop on every dog that barks on you. Because at the end of the day you're really nobody, no matter how rich or powerful you are... you're still a human being, you're not invincible, you're not going to become strong forever.
Trying to feel special will make you weak, it will make you soft and a diva. Look at those fighters who thought they have big names already... they don't want to fight younger and hungrier fighters anymore, they don't want to take risks anymore. If you're a fighter then you're a fighter, as simple as that, you will fight anyone who is put in front of you, you will never choose a weaker opponent, you will love any kind of challenge, you are here to devour anybody who's trying to steal your name. Just like a newly promoted employee in a company, she doesn't want to prepare her own coffee anymore, she wants an assistance, what if there is no assistance around? what if there is no slave around? is she still going to prepare her own coffee?
TO make life easier stop thinking that you're better than everyone else, stop seeking for respect. It will come, people will respect you if you really deserve it, you don't need to force it. It's ok if people are disrespecting you, it's ok if you're not getting what you deserve, just keep moving forward and give your very best, value your own values not the values of others. It doesn't matter if other people doesn't give you the respect that you deserve, what matters is you respect yourself, and trying to argue with them or trying hard for people to believe and praise you means not respecting yourself. If you really respect yourself then you don't need other people's approval, you're happy being you, you have nothing else to prove.
NEVER CARE ABOUT YOUR IDENTITY
Stop taking care of your reputation and feel free to do anything everyday. Stop thinking that people are judging you, stop feeling overwhelmed with the loudness of others, stop feeling so insecure, stop feeling like an outcast person, just be yourself and never care about your identity. You don't have idea how much power you will have if you don't care about what people say, but if you keep on caring about their comments and thoughts then you're in big trouble, you will feel stuck on one place. You need to feel free all the time, stop feeling so attached with other people, never mind if they don't like you or not and just be yourself.
So what if you're at the bottom, so what if you got embarrassed? their words doesn't matter, the only thing that matters is what you want to happen with your life and you won't be able to make it happen if you keep on valuing other people's words and opinions. Words doesn't matter, action does, words are meaningless without taking actions. If someone is all about talk then he is nothing, be about actions, talk is cheap, you need to know the difference between saying and executing. At the end if the day the truth is you are nothing, who do you think you are? you are not special, if you think you're so special then you will have a strong ego and that is bad for your life. There will be more pressure, there will be more frustration. If you can just let go of your identity then you will feel free, everything else will become a lot easier, you will never feel bad about the people you don't like, what people say will not matter to you at all.
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