The reason why you feel like a loser is because you have a cheap problem in your life. You have to admit that life will never become perfect, there will always be a problem, you will see something wrong in your life. But the difference between a successful person and a failure is a successful person chooses his problems wisely and a failure is focusing on the cheapest problems that are not even worth it. A successful person will spend his energy looking for a solution on how to become rich, he will spend his energy building houses or buying what he really wants while a failure will spend his energy barking at his noisy neighbor or criticizing people on the internet. If your problem is cheap then it means your mind has not evolved yet, if you're talking about other people's lives instead of focusing on your own life then it means you're choosing the wrong problem.
Worrying about getting richer or healthier is better than worrying about what people say or doing. Thinking about other people's business is a cheap problem, it's a wrong usage of energy, you're only getting weaker and weaker by doing that, your mental game is degrading by doing that, you need to focus on your own growth if you want to have a really good life. What matters is you're evolving mentally and you can only achieve it by choosing the right problem. It's better to chase goals than to change other people's actions or opinions, it's better to work hard than to constantly think about people that makes you feel bad. Where the focus is residing the momentum is running, the question is... is your momentum going up or going down.
Upgrade your problem, upgrade your level of thinking, upgrade your results. Instead of thinking about how hard your exam is or how terror your professor is... focus on studying, focus on the solutions of solving the exam, that's a better problem. It's all in your mind. How you think is how you will get results, as simple as that. It's simple about choosing an option that is much better and will give your desired results. It's easier to talk about the cheaper problems, it's easier and more fun to dwell on it but where will it take you? what willy you get by thinking about it? nothing, it will only make your life worse. You need to think smarter, you need to focus on the right and more elegant problem rather than focusing on cheap problems that only gives you headaches.
Stop giving energy to activities that don't have any rewards, stop feeding thoughts that will create a bridge to tragedy. You already knew what will give you a good life, it's just a matter of disciplining yourself to do what is needed. It's going to be a mental warfare between you and your old pattern of thinking, it's going to be hard to change your mind but if you will use your willpower and control you thoughts then your life will change so fast.
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