Success is simply about controlling yourself. You just need to do what is needed and that's it. If you need to study then study, if you need to stop taking drugs then stop taking drugs, if you need to breakup with your girlfriend because she's a bad influence then break up with your girlfriend. You have to be bold, you have to be decisive, you need to program your mind to do the right thing and stop engaging with activities that are not taking you further. Control your mind, control your decisions, the key is to be good in stopping having fun and go back to doing the right thing. Anyone can have fun, it's what most people do, they do the easy things and that's why they get zero results, and that's why their lives were so hard like hell.
Control your thoughts, control your emotions, just work hard and that's it. Just keep moving forward and that's it. It's hard to work hard because there are lot of distraction surrounding you. The cellphone is there, the chat online is always available, the TV is turned on, etc etc. The entertainment is always available and that's why it's hard for you to do the right thing. There is nothing wrong in having fun but make sure you will not complain and blame anyone of your life sucks already. You don't have the right to complain if you're so lazy and unproductive. Blame yourself, slap yourself, spit on yourself and change your attitude because you suck and you're not doing the simplest things that will put you on top of the pedestal. It's just doing one simple thing at a time and waiting for success... too simple, even an elementary can understand it. You don't need to become an Einstein here, you just need to focus and do the things that will give you an edge.
Control yourself, if you have a weak body and you're about to eat a lot... stop it. If your grades are failing and you're about to party with your cool friends.. stop it, if you're about to get broke and you're itching to buy the newest item online... stop it. The control for yourself must be strong. You're so addicted with instant gratification that's why your life is going down, a simple temptation is manipulating you, a simple offer from anybody to have fun is making you a helpless kid, you can't resist, you can't even think the right way once the temptation is there. If you want to change your life, you need to get boring, stop doing what is fun and make yourself like a nerd hustling everyday just to change your bum life. Be aware, be present, be conscious about every action that you are about to take. Be slow, don't move fast, just take it one step at a time and stay consistent. Always focus on the things that you need to do.
Time is fast, what bores you is entertaining you. You will learn how to love hard work, especially if the results were showing up. But that is the hardest part... starting, it's because you can't see rewards yet. That's why the control in the beginning should be very strong, train yourself to master delayed gratification, don't do something because it's fun. Because at the end of the day the only question is... does it have a reward?
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