EVEN YOUR IDOL WAS SCARED TOO

Who is the first person that you look up to? who is your idol? who is your hero? is he great? is he successful? of course yes, that's why you're idolizing him. But your idol is just a human too like you, he is not invincible nor fearless, he just learned how to control his fears and divert his attention into things that he wants. He mastered controlling his fear through experience, he is not confident before but he is now because of accepting the fact that fear is the path to greatness. 

Every great person was once sacred. They were scared to fail, they were scared to get humiliated. Your idol was scared too because he was just a human. The only difference is he can use that fear to fuel himself and convert it to strength. Your fear can either paralyze you or motivate you. It's up to you if you will let fear immobilize your body and brain. The best way to fight fear is to feel it, embrace it with peace, do not resist it, feel it with all your heart and soon you will see that it's not that bad. Actually... it is fun feeling it, it's a little bit of exciting. And the best thing about facing your fears is... it's making you a better person, it's taking you to another level. Your mental powers is getting stronger, you are getting braver and calmer. 

Look at your idol, he is calm right? he knows what to do, he is a winner. May it be your idol in showbiz, sports, politics or MMA... your idol is scared too, he is just good in not hiding it but feeling it, he remain cam under pressure, he can choose the right state of mind. But your idol too was once scared like you before, who is panicking and freaking out. He just manage to control his fears by studying it and welcoming it into his life. He is not resisting it, he is embracing it because he knew that there is a good effect on facing his fears, he knew that there is a reward on the other side of fear. 

You can never live without fear, a man who has no fear is dead or maybe psychotic. Rock n roll stars said that they need fear to perform well, without it they cannot give their best. Successful athletes said that they learned how to accept their fears and can turn it into a powerful energy that makes them give their very best. And that's why they do not crumble during pressure times, they look calm but deep inside they are nervous too. But what separates them from mediocre athletes is they can embrace their fears and focus their attention into winning. 

Fear can be your best friend, it can be a powerful tool to succeed, you must learn to accept that it is a signal for something. It is a signal to move and do the right thing, it is a signal to stay calm and breathe... good things are about to happen if you stay still and composed.