Fear will always be there and that is the reality of life, fear can never leave you, it will always challenge you, it will always test you, the good news is there is an antidote for it and that is discipline. Even if you are scared you can still move and force yourself to take the right actions because you already trained yourself to be like that. When you are scared that is the time to take actions, that is the trigger to move, that is the signal to just do it. Do it scared, do it uncomfortable and you will get to the next level, as simple as that. There is no recipe for success, there is no secret, you just need to face your fears and get comfortable being uncomfortable, take risks no matter what, do not shrink just to play safe, expose yourself to threats, pain, discomfort and uncertainty. Face the unknown, fear will always be there, it will never leave you, it is up to you how are you going to fight it, actually you don't need to fight it, you just need to feel it while moving forward and you will become unstoppable. Fear is just a feeling, it is never a reality, expectations were just imaginations, you are playing an image in your head that is not even real. The good news is once you are disciplined, once you know what you're going to do for particular situation, once you know how to react... you will be ok, nothing can ever touch you, this is just mental conditioning, preparation and training, if you are lazy to work on yourself then you will never get stronger. You will only have a strong mind once you train your mind to become tough and you can do that by imagining worse case scenarios and staying calm, look at it, picture it and you will know that it is nothing. The best way to train your mind is to face fear, laziness, embarrassment, failure with all your heart. Experience it a lot and you will no longer get intimidated by it, you are scared of something because you didn't expose yourself long enough with it. This is simply a matter of exposure therapy, you do what you are scared of and you will no longer get intimidated by it. Don't be afraid of results, don't be afraid of the future, don't be afraid of what people will say and you will become invincible. Once you experienced something for a lot of times you will get comfortable with it and it can no longer stop you, it can no longer make you feel terrible, it will become a challenge. Once you told yourself that you don't need anything like security, praise, validation, success, help, recognition, likes, comfort and assurance then you will become really unstoppable, once you rely on yourself solely, once you accept that you are enough and that you can survive anything and take actions anytime you want to... you will become a different kind of animal. So embrace fear and never let it stop you, never let it immobilize you, just take actions and keep moving forward no matter what and you will be alright.
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