Even if you're undefeated now, even if you're a son of a rich guy, even if you're so blessed... you can never escape hard work and defeat if you want to get stronger. The more you try to hide from it... the more you get weaker. That is the path to a stronger life, if you want to feel like a real strong person then stop avoiding effort, failure and challenges. That is life, living is already a blessing but you have to pay the price if you want to really live it to the fullest. You can never escape hardwork if you want to become something, there are no shortcuts in life, you can never escape defeat if you're competing or simply living a normal life because it is part of the conditions of life. You will feel sad, embarrassed, you will be rejected, you will feel the pain, you will feel betrayed, you will lose, you will experience a lot of rejection and disappointments, that's life, you can never escape these things, you can never avoid feeling negative because there is no such thing as positive if there is no negative. It is normal to see the bad side, to experience the ugly things, you should never feel bad about it because that's normal and it happens to everyone, there is no special guest here, there is no special treatment. You will be disrespected, you will lose, you will feel the difficulty, that's all part of the journey. If you are refusing to feel the pain then you will never experience the real life, the sad thing is you will feel shocked once there is a challenging situation. You need to get use to difficulty and adversity, there is no such thing as a perfect life, those who are aiming for it becomes weaker and weaker each day. If you want to become resilient then you need to face the pain, sometimes you need to create it voluntarily and train yourself so that nothing can threaten you anymore. Discipline is the key, once there is a task... face it, finish it and never hide, never quit from a challenge and go all the way no matter what. Focus on being a doer and never ask for something in return. It is your duty to get stronger, it is your duty to arrange your life, stop expecting perfection and big rewards because living is already a reward, everything else is just a bonus. If you want to experience real life then stop looking for comfort and start seeking for challenges, it is easy to look rich and comfortable, it is easy to live an easy life, it is easy to get fat and lazy, it is easy to post on social media how happy you are but facing your fears and realizing your dreams and goals, making sacrifices to improve your life... that is where the real game is. Stop looking for what is easy and start getting closer to different challenges that will improve your mentality. Life and challenges is a mental thing, you will only win if you have a strong mind so start forcing yourself to face the adversity and never shy away from pressure. You can never escape hard work and defeat, fail as much as you can, work as hard as you can and you already win.
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