You think you need to become happy but the truth is not, happiness is overrated. People wanted to become happy only to find out that it is fleeting all the time and not permanent, it goes away so fast, you can never hold on to it forever. You can chase it but all it does is make you depressed even more. Who says you need to become happy? is there an instruction manual in life that you need to become really happy? Looking for happiness outside of you means you are weak, you can become happy now if you will learn to appreciate what you have, you can become happy if you are focused on your own journey and trying to grow or get better every single day even if the progress was very slow or small. This is the truth, the more you wanted to become happy the more you will become sad. Happiness is not to be chased, it will happen naturally. If you based your happiness on outside events then you will become mentally weak. being happy is good but being sad is good to, any emotion is healthy for you because you are suppose to feel them all. You are not normal if you're not feeling negative. Keep going and never stop, do something positive and you will feel much happier. Avoid laziness and you will feel much happier, happiness can be found in the process. It can never be found in consuming, overthinking or drowning yourself with pleasures and entertainment. Become a doer and you will become really really happy. Just do it, be fast and never worry, always remember that for as long as you are moving forward... you will be alright. Push forward without any brakes and let's see how far you can go, never care about your emotions because it's just a liability. You need to be comfortable failing and embarrassing yourself. You need to feel alright not doing well but still trying and giving your very best. Do it when you're not ready, do it when you feel down and depressed, do it even if you are scared, that's the best part of it... pushing through even if you don't feel sure. At the end of the day life is simply about emotions, you will feel like a winner. If you are exerting a real effort then you will find yourself, you will find your worth and value, you will see who you really are. Train yourself to feel comfortable while feeling the pain and you will become invincible, as simple as that. This is not about being smart or something, this is about being tough and resilient. You can win a lottery but if you don't have the stamina to maintain the wealth then all money will go away in just a few months or weeks. This is about discipline and clarity, what do you want to be? it's not about being a pilot or doctor, this is not about destination, this is about the character. What character do you want to portray? do you want to become strong or soft? the choice is yours.
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