You took the last shot but the play was not designed for you, your coach was fuming mad and wanted to spank you, later at the locker room you were embarrassed and got scolded by your coach. The next game you don't want to shoot anymore because you're so afraid that your coach might get mad again. Your lack of confidence comes from trying to look for approval and avoiding conflicts form other people, it comes from you wanting them to like you. But if you allow yourself to become unlikable, if you allow yourself to fail again and again then that's the time you will really become free and powerful, that's the time when you will see who you are and see what you can really do. Confidence comes from building it through failures not with results. If you're looking for results all the time and trying to assure success and look for guarantees then you will never gain confidence, maybe you will win or become successful a little bit but you will only gain fake confidence. If you want to become confident and feel invincible then your actions must be based on your own decisions and not be based on what other people think or feel towards you, that is the weakest decision you could ever made. Life means freedom, it is a chance, it is an opportunity to see what you are made of so stop playing safe because it's a weak man's game. At the end of the day the people you are trying to please will never feed you. They will never lift you up or even help you, they will only judge and watch you, they will never help you to become a better person. Keep failing, take risks and do it your way, never care about what people say, think or do and you will find strength. Focus on what you can control and that is your mind and actions only. The more you focus on what people might say to you the weaker and weaker you get.
NOBODY IS GOING TO REMEMBER SUCCESS AND FAILURE
The only thing you will remember is if you gave your all or not, if you focus on getting what you want and ignore all the distractions that are trying to derail your progress. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, you are not suppose to achieve everything, you are suppose to try and see what you are capable of, that is the only way to know who you really are and achieve a peace of mind. Knowing that you gave everything you've got will give you so much satisfaction that not even a luxury diamond can give. If you want happiness then test yourself, discover who you really are and stop thinking about what people say or might say, it's none of your business to know what are they thinking and feeling, you cannot control it, every time you focus on what you can't control which is the future or what people might think you immediately get weak and slow, you become complacent and useless, if you want to become powerful... stop trying to change their minds and just do what you do.
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