It's ok if you are slow, it's ok if you're not flashy, it's ok if you're not popular. Don't try so hard to look cool, it's ok if you're not part of the cool kids. It's ok if you're always getting laughed at, respect will be earned in the future not now. If you want respect then make yourself 100x better, it's possible to do that, all it takes is hard work, discipline and sacrifices. Make sacrifices to get better, don't waste your time trying to prove yourself or trying to fit in, you don't need to become part of someone's circle, create your own circle, create your own kingdom and never let anyone step on you. If you want to be in power then you need to become powerful, you need to have something that they can't have, do something that most people can't do. Once you get better, once you're on a different level then they will respect you, as simple as that.
You don't need to please or impress anyone, if they like you then they like you, you don't need to try so hard and look cool just for them to like you. Once they hate you... they will hate you forever even if you're not doing something bad. They will criticize you, they will laugh at you, they will backstab you, that is the reality so never give importance to what people say. If they don't like you they don't like you, so be it. Stop trying to impress, stop being loud, just be yourself and use what you've got. You don't need to compare what you have with them, focus on your own resources and skills, focus on just trying to get better everyday mentally. You don't need to force them to like you, you don't need control or assurance, just give your best and show your true colors, as simple as that.
Most people can't be themselves because they're trying to fit in, they're trying to prove that they belong only to F*ck themselves up in the end. They end up being lost, not being yourself just to please everyone is dangerous. You don't need their appreciation, you don't need their approval. Never ask for permission, if you want to look that way then look that way, if you want to do it your way then do it your way. Most people were so damn scared of what other people are thinking of them and that's why they can't enforce their will, that's why they're just following the crowd.
Just act normal, stay still, don't panic if you're out of place, never compare yourself to others and just focus on the main thing, focus on what you're trying to accomplish. Have big goals, have a vision and you don't need to think about what other people think anymore. You will become more confident if you are trying to get better everyday. You don't need to worry, you don't need to fit in, the right people will come if you are so true to yourself.
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