If you feel blessed, if you really love your life then why will you get jealous with someone? why will you feel the lack and zero abundance? If you're confident enough that you can succeed too then you have no time for negativity, jealousy, hatred or unfair treatment. You just knew that what you have is enough and you don't need to give attention to other people anymore. It's just a waste of time to be using your energy for negative people and things, you're just wasting your life and pushing away the blessings that are about to come.
Stop being needy, you don't need what they have, you are not suppose to have what they have. If you really need it then get one too but if you don't then be happy with what you have and stop being jealous. Examine your life very well and you will see how blessed you are, you should stop focusing on the things that are only making you feel bad, you're better than that. If you're just appreciative then good things will be attracted to you, stop being jealous, stop trying to prove your point, stop forcing them to praise you. Focus on what you have and make it grow as big as it can be. You have so much in your life but you can't see it and make it flourish because you're too focus on hating people, using your time to watch them instead of watching your own life. You will never grow if you're watering the garden of your neighbor, you should water your own garden and make it beautiful as it can be.
Opportunities will go away if you will give attention to things that are outside of your control. The only things that you can control is your vicinity, your area, your territory, your mind, your body and reactions. Focus on these areas and you will live a happier life, as simple as that. Look at yourself, the reason why you're unhappy is because you're not interested with your life anymore. You're more interested with other people's journey. The result of NFL game is affecting you, your sad when your idol is pregnant again and there's no father of her upcoming child, you're mad when your favorite politician is getting ridiculed by the public, you're devastated when your neighbor is noisy, you're jealous when your enemy is succeeding. These things are irrelevant to your happiness but you keep on connecting it to your emotion.
This is just a matter of controlling yourself. Happiness and success is just a matter of placing your focus on the right things, using your time the right away and doing what is best for yourself. You just need a discipline and you will be alright. Discipline with your thoughts, body and actions. You don't need to become super great, you just need to pick the best option available in front of you. The best option is the harder option but has rewards in the future. Every second you are deciding, ever second you are building your life. Are you going to build your life with negativity? or are you going to give your best to make your life better each day.?
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