BE A FAILURE

There is nothing wrong being a failure, there is nothing wrong with doing it your way and following your own belief. There is nothing wrong being a rebel and just following your own intuition. You only have one life why not try everything you can? Life is not about winning or losing, it's about trying and doing it your way, it's about putting yourself on the best position to succeed. The more you fail the more you learn, there is nothing wrong about failing, you will become mentally tougher, you will become more experienced. You will become a different person, you will become a different animal, a different beast that doesn't feel anything about defeat anymore, you are here to win and you just knew that it will happen one day in just a matter of time. Failing is all part of your life, if you're not failing now you will still fail in the future, don't be afraid of it, people who doesn't want to fail are weak. Look at some fighters who were undefeated before, they feel so low after tasting their first defeat. It's because they haven't felt that pain before. You will only become tougher and stronger every time you incorporate failing into your life. Don't ever think that you can bail yourself out from failure, you will experience it in the future even if you're not experiencing it now. 

Keep pushing forward every time you fail, don't be scared to try again, don't be scared to fail again. You have to show the universe that you want it so bad or else you will never have a break through, you have to keep pushing no matter what, even if you're not making results. It is what it is, it's really going to get hard, it's really tough but you have to make yourself believe that you can still do it. No matter what is your age, no matter what skills you have or what cards you hold... you still need to believe, still try and give yourself a chance to succeed. Failing is normal, it will never make you bad, it doesn't mean you don't have it, you just need more time to achieve, you just need to work harder. So keep pushing, keep grinding, always dare to sacrifice, always dare to move further. 

One day you will become a winner too, one day all of your works will be recognized, one day all of your efforts will be rewarded. So never get sick and tired of trying, always be patient, always believe in yourself and always work hard every single day. One day the universe will hear you because you are legit, you are real, you're not playing around, you are here for a business.... you are here to realized all of your dreams. 

IT WILL RETURN

Whatever you lost right now... it will return, don't worry because it will always return, you don't need to feel about what was lost in your life, you can replace it, everything is replaceable, the only thing that is irreplaceable is life, time and virginity. You can replace anything, what is lost will come back if you work hard and make an effort to make it go back. Even if your girl friend that ditched you for a new handsome boyfriend may come back if she sees that you're already rich and smelling good. Don't worry about anything that goes away in your life because something better will replace it if you keep believing and keep working hard everyday. 

RELAX AND TAKE IT EASY

Don't feel so sorry about what's already gone, if it is gone then it is gone. It will return, if your girl left you there will be another girl who will come to your life. If you lost your job you can find another job next day or next week, it may take time but the job will come back. The good thing is, maybe this time the pay is much higher than the previous job. If you lost an opportunity there will be a new opportunity that will come, all you need to do is be patient, what is lost will be replaced, it will return in just a matter of time, just keep waiting and have faith, what you want was not gone forever... it will come back on the right time. 

If you got tired your energy will return, if you got sick your strong body will return, if you become bankrupt your money will return, if you lose your friends a new set of friends will come, if you lose everything you will have something in the near future. Everything is replaceable so don't worry, just relax, don't panic because there is always something for you. You will get what you deserve, you will get what you are working for, it's just a matter of trusting time and trusting the process, have faith in yourself, have faith in your life... good things will come. So just keep moving forward all the time and stay optimistic, what is lost will be replaced. Don't get attached with something too much to the point that it's consuming your mind and affecting your life, you need to detach from something that was lost, if it comes back it comes back, if it doesn't then there will always be something better that will replace it. 

Ditch the past, forget what makes you feel bad because every time you do that good things will come to you. Don't ever think that what is lost is the only best thing in your life, you still have a lot of good things in your life, all you have to do is focus on what you want to love, focus on what is in front of you. What is gone is gone, let it go and it will come back. 

THIS YEAR IS ALMOST OVER, WHAT DID YOU ACCOMPLISHED?

How are you going to finish this year? that's the big question, most people already considered this year over, they already concede, they already gave up. They treat it as another useless year, some people hated it, some people thought that it's a nightmare. The truth is it is not, year 2020 could have been the best year of your life if you only did what is best for your life. And even if your life is bad all year long, you still have more than a month to fix it and do something great. It's not how you start, it's how you finish. Finish this year strong and try to squeeze something from it, try to make it great, you have the power to do that if you will move now and force things to happen. 

Just keep moving forward no matter what, forget the future and stay with the NOW. Just enjoy the time remaining for this year and simply give your best, don't be a slacker, don't take any given day for granted. Don't ever think that this year is almost over so you have the luxury to be lazy and do nothing anymore, that kind of attitude will lead to nowhere, you have to finish this year strong so that you will have a strong momentum next year. You don't know what may happen, all I know is good things happen to people who work hard. This yea is not yet over, you can still do something about it, you can still make it great. Your dreams can still come true, but if you feel like time is not enough anymore then just accomplish some parts of your dreams, maybe 25% or 50% of it, it's still possible, never waste this year for nothing because just like what I've said before... if you want to become successful then you got to keep on pushing, push yourself to the limits and never give up. What's the point of giving up? nothing you can get from that crap, it's a waste of time, it's a waste of life, you have to keep pushing no matter what. Not giving up is all in the mind, if you can make your mind powerful then you will never give up ever, convince your mind to keep going, condition it to face all the disappointments and pain. A strong mind is a strong life, a strong mind will keep you unrattled, you will be able to face any kind of problem at ease.

Look at your life, what did you accomplished this year? be happy if you improve a little bit, a little improvement will lead to bigger things, be happy if you gain a little bit financially, be appreciative if there is something small you were able to build. Be proud of yourself and never belittle yourself, if you manage to make a small improvement with your life then it means you're going up and not going down. You're headed on a right direction, all it takes is sustaining it and pushing more a little bit. The year is almost over but there are plenty of days remaining. One month, three weeks, two weeks, it doesn't matter, for as long as you're still alive... you can still make your life a little bit better than what it was yesterday. 

DOING SOMETHING IS FREE

Why are you so afraid to pull the trigger? why are you so afraid to take actions? don't you know that doing something is free? people won't charge you anything for taking actions. You can do anything you want, you can start now, you can chase your dreams or simply do what is needed. Nothing can stop you, you're the only one who's holding yourself back. You can start whenever you want, what is it that's stopping you? define it and study it, ask yourself why is it stopping you? is it really powerful or is there something you can do about it? of course there is something you can do, all you have to do is decide that you're going to pull the trigger. It's stopping you because you're letting it stop you, you're attached with it. But if you will completely detach from anything then you will become unstoppable, you will feel free, you will feel good, you will learned that it's ok not to win for as long as you're trying... that is where fun is. 

The just do it mentality. Always remember that you have nothing to lose, this is just fun and games. Take action now, just do it now and give yourself a chance to win. Detach from the outcome, if you win you win, if you lose you lose. You will never know what will happen unless you try. Because the real meaning of success is knowing if you can make it or not by doing whatever it takes to win in life. Do the first step and then follow through, never stop, keep moving forward and go further as much as you can... that's how to win in life. Just do it, push yourself, force yourself to take actions, never stop when it's hard, stop when you're already done. 

The number one reason why you're losing is because you don't have your own culture, you don't know what you're going to do, you're always doubting yourself. What if you just do it and be ok with the results that may happen? why not just shut your mouth and just execute? you're always looking for something before you start, you don't know that what you need is already inside of you. You have the power to move, don't forget about it, you must do something or else you will not be in control. Whatever may happen, always choose taking actions. Don't just sit there and wait, don't just hope that everything will be alright even if you're not doing anything. Do whatever it takes to get what you want, give yourself a chance to succeed. 

It's all a matter of choice if you will work hard or not, are you going to do something about it? are you going to pull the trigger? stop acting like you can't do anything, always choose working, always choose giving your best because that is what it's all about. Keep working, keep pushing, it's always free to move, it's always free to take actions, nothing can stop you if you will choose to become unstoppable. 

STOP BEING FANCY

Being too flashy, being arrogant and loud means you're trying to impress somebody. Being yourself is the best thing you can do. Because by doing that people will love you more and you will be able to make the right decisions. A lot of people nowadays will do something stupid just to make themselves look superior and interesting. They will buy expensive clothes, post naked in social media, make dramas, will try to become generous even if they don't feel it, and this makes them broke in the end, this kind of attitude makes them lose a lot of money and respect, they were lost, they feel bad if people doesn't respect or appreciate them. Some people wants to get feared, they want to get respected but forcing these things to happen is pushing it away even more. 

Just be yourself, so what if you look poor? so what if you don't look great and cool? people will like you more if you're not loud and just simple. Be simple if you are simple, don't try to make yourself something you are not because it's only making your life worse. Because the truth in life is people doesn't like you they will not like you, it's hard to change their opinions, you can please them now, you can impress them now but they will hate you again in the future. You need to just be yourself and never try to change the opinions of people about you. You are looking like a clown even more every time you do things that you really don't like. Being true to yourself will make you more happy. It's a mistake to do something that is outside of your values. Because you are embarrassing yourself even more every time you do things that you feel impressive but are really not impressive. 

Because if you are really great then you must be confident about yourself, you don't need to worry about what people say, you don't need to worry if you're on top or at the bottom, you just simply live your life the way it is. There's no pressure at all, there's no attachments from their comments, you are not afraid of getting criticized, you are not afraid if they like you or not, you have a peace of mind that you are ok no matter what. Just feel happy with what you have, be appreciative of what you have and the rest will be taken care of by itself. There is nothing wrong by being yourself, if you're not coo you're not cool so what? do you need to look cool just to stay alive? do you need to look rich and superior just to feel happy? if you need those things then you're weak, your happiness was based on the external things that you cannot control. 

All you can control is your mind and actions, be happy if you're doing the right thing and progressing a little bit, be happy if you're not getting something, be happy if they can't appreciate you. Just work hard and focus on your goals, focus on improving everyday because that is where really happiness is coming from. 

WHATEVER NUMBER YOU CAN PRODUCE

You've got to love numbers if you want to become successful, you've got to love increasing your numbers. What numbers can you produce? for now I am sure that there is a number that you can produce and you have to do it. No more waiting, no more thinking... just produce it. 

How many rejections can you take? how many pushups can you make? how much money can you bring home? how many calls can you do? how many articles can you write? how many hours can you work? count it and then try to increase it every single day. How many content can you create? how many repetitions can you repeat? how many failures can you endure? how many sacrifices can you make? how many small successes can you repeat? how many tries can you try? that's the main question... what numbers can you produce? it's ok if you produce a small number, it's ok if that's all you can do, what matters is you are pushing yourself and trying to take your journey to another level. Because your main problem is not the lack or resources or lack of skills, it's not the lack of help nor education... it's your inability to make a stand for what you want. You can do ten or 100, you're aspiring for a big number but your effort is for only 5. You can do more, you can become bigger than your situation but you always settle for less, your value is too small but you think you deserve something bigger than what you're getting. It's time to wake up, push your numbers up or else your life will never change. 

Just produce one, do one then follow it up. Do more, keep doing, keep moving forward, that's how success is being done. Stop putting your work in pending, once you start something... strive to finish it, never stop, never procrastinate, never make excuses, never entertain your pain... just focus on doing one step at a time and you will make a progress. Most people are entertaining their pain that's why they can't finish something. They make their boredom or fatigue a big deal, they stop right away when they feel tired, they don't push themselves when they're struggling. Always remember that it's all about pushing forward and nothing else. There is no right timing now, you have to do it if it's uncomfortable. Pacing yourself, waiting for the right timing is only catering laziness, it's making you weak, it's building a useless culture in you. You have to do something while you can because you never know what will happen tomorrow. You have to execute every idea in your head now because tomorrow is not a promise. The sun may explode tomorrow and we all die, you might have another different challenge tomorrow and you will never do what you are suppose to do anymore. Situations may change fast and if you're always slowing down and stepping on the brakes then you will never get anywhere. So push yourself to do something even if it' just small, trust me... it can make a difference, produce any kind of number and multiply it.