Never underestimate the power of saying now because it is a lot, it can change your life completely. Because not all the time you have to say yes, not all the time you have to agree on something because of being afraid to get judged by other people. You have the power to say no, never think that you offended someone by saying it. And so what if they were offended? it's their fault if they were too emotional. You need to say NO especially if it is giving you a leverage or putting you on a better position. People who can say NO all the time were powerful and disciplined, they were the ones who usually succeed and make it in life. Because saying no is uncomfortable and those who can embrace discomfort are the ones who become more successful.
Saying No is normal, you're just a human being, you are not perfect, you have the right to choose what is best for you and disregard what other people say. Stop getting swayed by peer pressure, stop following what other people say, stop letting the higher authority pressure you... you have the power to decide and can live with that decision. Make a stand for your decision, when you say "NO"don't change it nor create excuses why you need to change it, live with it and never get manipulated by the opinions of other people.
Say no to abusive boss, say no to laziness and procrastination, say no to bad contracts or proposals, say no to toxic friends, say no to instant gratification. Saying no will make an huge impact to your life, you will see the change, you will feel the difference. Just try saying no all the time especially to situations which are making your life difficult, say no whenever you don't want something, say no if it is putting you on an ugly situation. Saying no is only hard in the beginning but once you get used to it... nothing will be able to control you anymore, you will be the one who's in charge of your life.
Say no when you don't want what is being offered or presented, it's ok to eat your ego, it's ok to stop pleasing people, it's ok to stop impressing people. Because some people will say yes just to impress other people, they will say yes if a pretty girl is offering them a product, they will say yes if they want to be called rich, they will say yes and agree to something that they really don't like which is crazy because they are only putting themselves on a bad position. Say no and mean it, don't change your mind, don't worry about other people's feelings, your feelings is the most important thing in the world because it is your life.
Saying No is normal, you're just a human being, you are not perfect, you have the right to choose what is best for you and disregard what other people say. Stop getting swayed by peer pressure, stop following what other people say, stop letting the higher authority pressure you... you have the power to decide and can live with that decision. Make a stand for your decision, when you say "NO"don't change it nor create excuses why you need to change it, live with it and never get manipulated by the opinions of other people.
Say no to abusive boss, say no to laziness and procrastination, say no to bad contracts or proposals, say no to toxic friends, say no to instant gratification. Saying no will make an huge impact to your life, you will see the change, you will feel the difference. Just try saying no all the time especially to situations which are making your life difficult, say no whenever you don't want something, say no if it is putting you on an ugly situation. Saying no is only hard in the beginning but once you get used to it... nothing will be able to control you anymore, you will be the one who's in charge of your life.
Say no when you don't want what is being offered or presented, it's ok to eat your ego, it's ok to stop pleasing people, it's ok to stop impressing people. Because some people will say yes just to impress other people, they will say yes if a pretty girl is offering them a product, they will say yes if they want to be called rich, they will say yes and agree to something that they really don't like which is crazy because they are only putting themselves on a bad position. Say no and mean it, don't change your mind, don't worry about other people's feelings, your feelings is the most important thing in the world because it is your life.
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