Dec 3, 2019

BE SUCCESSFUL IN YOUR OWN WAY

Success becomes super hard to achieve because you are measuring your success based on other people's success, you don't know how to give definition of your own success. Your mind is conditioned by the society, you always feel like a failure because you're comparing yourself to others. You don't know that you are enough. You feel the lack of success because you're so jealous with other people's success, you're always looking at what they are doing and achieving instead of focusing solely with your life.

Success will be easier you achieve if you will set your own standards and relentlessly chase your goals no matter what. Even if they say that your goal is too small, even if they laugh at your goal... you should still live the life you wanted to live and follow your own standards. You will never be successful if you're always listening to what other people say, you will get lost if you let them manipulate your mind. Set your own standards and be happy with what you are getting. Success is easy to get if you will focus on your own journey, focus on the process and not on the results. Process will give you happiness, results will give you stagnancy. If you're too busy on checking your improvement and status... you will never take actions anymore, you will become stuck.

Do it your way. Just do it, don't be afraid of critics, don't be afraid of people who were trying to stop you... just do it your way. Never follow an idea if it doesn't feel good to you, never follow other people's advise, you have to do it your way or else you will never see the right way. You have to follow your heart or else your heart will be filled with doubts. All it takes is your tenacity and the willingness to try again. Do it your way, execute your own idea, follow your own game plan and never feel sorry for yourself if you fail, never think that you're wrong id you didn't succeed. Sometimes you really have to fail a lot of times before you see the right way for you.

You can choose your own path, you can create your own path... you are so much free here, you have nothing to lose so just follow your heart and give your very best, there is nothing wrong if you follow your true self even if your idea looks crazy and nonsense. If you didn't follow your heart and didn't believe in yourself then you will be forced to follow other people's dreams. You will look like a side kick, you will feel like a loser even if your boss wins. Do it your way or else you will be forced to follow other people's way that you don't even like, it feels like a garbage not following your own dreams, it feels weak and useless.

You're the only one who can judge if you're successful or not. Not your parents, not some random professionals, not even your friends. You're the only one who can judge your work, effort and success. Sp do it your way and never feel bad if you're failing, at leas you set your own path, at least you followed your heart. 

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