DO WHAT YOU THINK

Never get stuck on the process of thinking, stop over thinking, once you think of something or you have an idea... do it, execute, be fast and never wait. Stop over thinking, stop over preparing, stop over planning because you are simply wasting your life by doing that. You have to do it now, what are you waiting for Christmas? Valentines day? graduation day of your dog? The right time to do the first step is now, do it now and never think about what will happen next, stop thinking about the future and execute all of your ideas. Stop being like others who all do is think and never execute, if you're a fast starter then you already have an advantage, but make sure you're nothing but just a fast starter, also be a strong finisher. Finish it no matter what, finish what you've started and keep pushing yourself to the limits.

Because you are ruining your own life every time you over think and never do anything, you are just taking your life for granted and it will back fire on you in the end, you will get nothing whenever you need to have something, you will always lose, your life will be full of regrets. So do it now, regardless of how you feel.. do it now, never wait, never get acceptance from others, stop looking for someone's approval before you start, do it and have no regrets when you made a mistake. Because you are always free to do something, the reason why you can't move is because you're always worried about making mistakes or failing, you're always worried about what's going to happen next. Don't you know that real life is happening now? there is no future nor past, your life is happening now. So stop thinking about the future and enjoy the present moment, stop thinking about what could have gone wrong, you will never make any mistakes if you will enjoy the process and accept that struggles are all part of the game.

Be fast and never think, once you think you need to do it... do it, stop judging yourself that you are wrong, be confident and don't be afraid of failing, don't be afraid to try again. If you're not afraid to go back from the starting line and start from zero then you will become successful, it's because you will do more and accomplish a lot of things. Success belongs to people who can move fast and willing to repeat every time they fail, speed is the name of the game, look at yourself... are you having a hard time to make a simple decision? if yes then you're in big trouble, stop being to cautious about making a decision, stop being too worried, free yourself and live your life to the fullest by taking massive actions and getting massive results.

You are free to do anything with your life, stop worrying too much, you're not in danger here, you are risking even more if you're not doing anything. 

THE POWER OF SAYING NO

Never underestimate the power of saying now because it is a lot, it can change your life completely. Because not all the time you have to say yes, not all the time you have to agree on something because of being afraid to get judged by other people. You have the power to say no, never think that you offended someone by saying it. And so what if they were offended? it's their fault if they were too emotional. You need to say NO especially if it is giving you a leverage or putting you on a better position. People who can say NO all the time were powerful and disciplined, they were the ones who usually succeed and make it in life. Because saying no is uncomfortable and those who can embrace discomfort are the ones who become more successful.

Saying No is normal, you're just a human being, you are not perfect, you have the right to choose what is best for you and disregard what other people say. Stop getting swayed by peer pressure, stop following what other people say, stop letting the higher authority pressure you... you have the power to decide and can live with that decision. Make a stand for your decision, when you say "NO"don't change it nor create excuses why you need to change it, live with it and never get manipulated by the opinions of other people.

Say no to abusive boss, say no to laziness and procrastination, say no to bad contracts or proposals, say no to toxic friends, say no to instant gratification. Saying no will make an huge impact to your life, you will see the change, you will feel the difference. Just try saying no all the time especially to situations which are making your life difficult, say no whenever you don't want something, say no if it is putting you on an ugly situation. Saying no is only hard in the beginning but once you get used to it... nothing will be able to control you anymore, you will be the one who's in charge of your life.

Say no when you don't want what is being offered or presented, it's ok to eat your ego, it's ok to stop pleasing people, it's ok to stop impressing people. Because some people will say yes just to impress other people, they will say yes if a pretty girl is offering them a product, they will say yes if they want to be called rich, they will say yes and agree to something that they really don't like which is crazy because they are only putting themselves on a bad position. Say no and mean it, don't change your mind, don't worry about other people's feelings, your feelings is the most important thing in the world because it is your life. 

THE MENTALITY IS TO GO HIGHER AND HIGHER

There is no other better mentality than to go higher and higher... it is what is is, life will only be experienced once so why not get the best out of it? why not life your life to the fullest and experience all the best things in life? You are not suppose to stay at the bottom, you are not suppose to live like a loser. You are here to chase your dreams, you are here to become stronger and tougher, you are here to win. Go higher and higher, keep climbing that mountain, keep hunting that goal... never stop, never settle, adapt that beast mentality, adapt the shark mindset.... you feel weak whenever you get stagnant. Stagnancy is the baddest philosophy, you will die earl y if you're not working hard.

Elevate your skills, elevate your financial and social status, be the best that you can be. Because if you're not going higher then you are going down, there is no such thing as maintaining, there are only two ways... to go up or to go down. So look at yourself, make an inventory of your skills, money, status in life... are you going up or going down? be brutally honest with yourself because if you keep denying that you're not doing the right thing then change will never take place. Admit that you're lazy and a bum, admit that you're clowning around and get disgusted with that habit of yours.

It's hard to go higher, it's easier to go down but going down feels like hell in the end, it's full of regrets and frustrations, the funny thing about doing down is once the momentum is very strong you will never be able to stop it anymore. That's why broke people still keep spending a lot of money even though they were in huge debts, they were digging their own graves because the momentum is very strong and the habits of spending and wasting money is very worse. They don't know what to do anymore, they couldn't even get started to change, the direction of their lives is straight to the bottom, it's like the quick sand is easting them.

SO if you wanted to win... start now, work hard, keep pushing yourself to the top, do whatever it takes to improve. Small improvement everyday is enough, be happy with it, if you improve a little bit then keep doing the same routine each and everyday. Stop wasting time, stop wasting money and energy, wasting a lot of it is setting yourself up for failure. You need to be smart here, you need to be strict with your decisions. Go up or die trying, these are the only options that you must have.

All you have to do is do it, do something, stop pretending that you are weak, stop letting discomfort stop you. Of course it will become uncomfortable, of course you will get crazy a little bit because you are fighting resistance. It's normal, you have to pace the pain of change, you have to make sacrifices and focus on the process. 

BE SUCCESSFUL IN YOUR OWN WAY

Success becomes super hard to achieve because you are measuring your success based on other people's success, you don't know how to give definition of your own success. Your mind is conditioned by the society, you always feel like a failure because you're comparing yourself to others. You don't know that you are enough. You feel the lack of success because you're so jealous with other people's success, you're always looking at what they are doing and achieving instead of focusing solely with your life.

Success will be easier you achieve if you will set your own standards and relentlessly chase your goals no matter what. Even if they say that your goal is too small, even if they laugh at your goal... you should still live the life you wanted to live and follow your own standards. You will never be successful if you're always listening to what other people say, you will get lost if you let them manipulate your mind. Set your own standards and be happy with what you are getting. Success is easy to get if you will focus on your own journey, focus on the process and not on the results. Process will give you happiness, results will give you stagnancy. If you're too busy on checking your improvement and status... you will never take actions anymore, you will become stuck.

Do it your way. Just do it, don't be afraid of critics, don't be afraid of people who were trying to stop you... just do it your way. Never follow an idea if it doesn't feel good to you, never follow other people's advise, you have to do it your way or else you will never see the right way. You have to follow your heart or else your heart will be filled with doubts. All it takes is your tenacity and the willingness to try again. Do it your way, execute your own idea, follow your own game plan and never feel sorry for yourself if you fail, never think that you're wrong id you didn't succeed. Sometimes you really have to fail a lot of times before you see the right way for you.

You can choose your own path, you can create your own path... you are so much free here, you have nothing to lose so just follow your heart and give your very best, there is nothing wrong if you follow your true self even if your idea looks crazy and nonsense. If you didn't follow your heart and didn't believe in yourself then you will be forced to follow other people's dreams. You will look like a side kick, you will feel like a loser even if your boss wins. Do it your way or else you will be forced to follow other people's way that you don't even like, it feels like a garbage not following your own dreams, it feels weak and useless.

You're the only one who can judge if you're successful or not. Not your parents, not some random professionals, not even your friends. You're the only one who can judge your work, effort and success. Sp do it your way and never feel bad if you're failing, at leas you set your own path, at least you followed your heart.