When you're struggling, struggle even more, don't look for comfort, don't look for assurance, stop hiding and just feel it, feel the pain, feel the moment and never look for an escape. Embrace that emotions, second by second... live with it. It's all about not quitting and embracing the test that is infront of you. So what if you lose, so what if you can't make it, the most important thing is you don't give up and that's it. That's already a recognition, having the ability to lose will give you power. Embrace it with grace and don't ever complain. Just deal with it, don't rush anything, don't wish and don't hope, accept what you've been going though and live with it. At the end of the day it will end, suffering and struggle will end in just a matter of time, you just need to keep pushing forward and never give up. Time will come and you will be able to make a breakthrough. This is just a feeling, it's just an emotion, feelings are trying to stop you. The more you get emotional the more the suffering, you need to stop prioritizing your feelings and start living intellectually. It's all in the mind, if you can control your mind then you have mastery over your life. You have to face the path, it is your path now so be it, deal with it, live it and never complain. Because you're only getting weaker and weaker as you complain about life. Love your life no matter how hard it gets, it s your life, you only have one so never curse it nor hate it, love it even if it's not giving you what you want. At the end of the day you have what you need, you can survive today even if you have less. Living is simply breathing and surviving everything else was just a bonus. Just give your best and that's it, there is nothing else to worry about. Take it one day at a time, work hard and believe that one day you're going to make a breakthrough. Never rush the process, if you have to undergo pain so be it. If you have to work harder than everyone else so be it. Focus on what you're trying to get, focus on what you want and do whatever it takes to get it, as simple as that. If it is hard then it means you're getting closer and closer to success. Never stop, never look for shortcuts, never look for an easy way out and just face what is infront of you. You're strong, you can endure anything, you can survive anything, you just need to stop being dramatic, stop being a diva and get hard. At the end of the day this is not about winning or losing, it's about not giving up so focus on taking it one step at a time and just go with it. If it's hard and painful so be it, never look for sympathy, never complain and just focus on what you can control. Focus on your actions and thoughts, focus on what you believe and never let any harmful thoughts penetrate your mind, infiltrate the negativity and start living with positivity.
Mar 31, 2025
DON'T LOOK FOR COMFORT WHEN YOU'RE STRUGGLING
Mar 27, 2025
LACK OF CONFIDENCE COMES FROM TRYING TO KNOW HOW THEY FEEL
You took the last shot but the play was not designed for you, your coach was fuming mad and wanted to spank you, later at the locker room you were embarrassed and got scolded by your coach. The next game you don't want to shoot anymore because you're so afraid that your coach might get mad again. Your lack of confidence comes from trying to look for approval and avoiding conflicts form other people, it comes from you wanting them to like you. But if you allow yourself to become unlikable, if you allow yourself to fail again and again then that's the time you will really become free and powerful, that's the time when you will see who you are and see what you can really do. Confidence comes from building it through failures not with results. If you're looking for results all the time and trying to assure success and look for guarantees then you will never gain confidence, maybe you will win or become successful a little bit but you will only gain fake confidence. If you want to become confident and feel invincible then your actions must be based on your own decisions and not be based on what other people think or feel towards you, that is the weakest decision you could ever made. Life means freedom, it is a chance, it is an opportunity to see what you are made of so stop playing safe because it's a weak man's game. At the end of the day the people you are trying to please will never feed you. They will never lift you up or even help you, they will only judge and watch you, they will never help you to become a better person. Keep failing, take risks and do it your way, never care about what people say, think or do and you will find strength. Focus on what you can control and that is your mind and actions only. The more you focus on what people might say to you the weaker and weaker you get.
NOBODY IS GOING TO REMEMBER SUCCESS AND FAILURE
The only thing you will remember is if you gave your all or not, if you focus on getting what you want and ignore all the distractions that are trying to derail your progress. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, you are not suppose to achieve everything, you are suppose to try and see what you are capable of, that is the only way to know who you really are and achieve a peace of mind. Knowing that you gave everything you've got will give you so much satisfaction that not even a luxury diamond can give. If you want happiness then test yourself, discover who you really are and stop thinking about what people say or might say, it's none of your business to know what are they thinking and feeling, you cannot control it, every time you focus on what you can't control which is the future or what people might think you immediately get weak and slow, you become complacent and useless, if you want to become powerful... stop trying to change their minds and just do what you do.
Mar 26, 2025
JUST BEGIN NOW AND FORGET THE PAST
You can't start now because you're always thinking about the past, you're living in the past and you can't get out of it. You're always thinking about your mistakes, shortcomings, failures, what could have been and it is not serving you, it's only making you weak. You can't create a new identity because the past is dragging you back to weakness. If you want a better life then you better forget the past and start thinking ahead. Stop enjoying the past because it's no longer relevant, you have to make a decision now to think differently. You will only succeed if you're always thinking differently and not remembering all the bad things that happened in the past, stop trying to change the past because there is nothing you can do about it. It's all just a lesson. Discipline your mind because you're wasting a lot of time and energy by prioritizing the past instead of the present, it's making you weak, it's making you unproductive, it's not giving you any edge at all. If you want to become fast, strong, wealthier and stronger then you better forget who you are in the past, forget all the mistakes and embarrassments, accept that you're a different person now and start experiencing a new life. Attract different and better opportunities by becoming something different, something very far and different from your old personality. Detachment is the key, detach from your past experiences, forget the people that is distracting your mind and start living a different life no. Talk, speak, move and decide differently, you have to become a different beast if you want a better and stronger life. This is very simple but going to be very hard, you just need to guard yourself all the time. Start living differently, live a new life, it is what it is, it's going to be a lot of discipline and hard times but living in the past is much harder and weaker so if I were you... you better do something that will serve you, something that has a higher percentage of giving you a much better life. Living in the past is for losers, it's for people who never grow. You have to delete everything in the past and start creating something new today. Again, this will take a lot of discipline, willpower and effort but it's worth giving a try, you will never lose here, you are in a win win situation by trying this method. You should have a short term memory when it comes to failure, bad feelings, disrespectful situations, rejections and embarrassments. Learn to let go, by doing this you are creating a space for a new experience, you will no longer be chained by memories that are holding you back and making you weak and slow. You have to start now, do something about your life and never procrastinate again. Become a doer instead of a thinker, just live in the moment and take it one step at a time, see how far you can go.
Mar 24, 2025
BEING FAST IS THE KEY TO GREATNESS
When you just do it, when you allow yourself to move, when you expose yourself to failure, mistakes and pain... that's how you become great. Because you will never make a progress if it's always easy. You have to feel that it is hard, you have to stop feeling comfortable and do whatever it takes to get to the next level. It is what it is, you can't be dreaming about winning and not giving something in exchange. The key is to just do it and stop looking for perfection, study your emotions, watch it very closely and understand the reason why you can't move. You want comfort all the time so the technique is to feel comfortable being uncomfortable. You must master just doing it, never care if you have a lot of dramas going on, never care if it is hard, never care if you're about to explode. Just try to stay calm, breathe and take actions. Once you are already fast, once you already have a momentum... nothing can ever stop you anymore, you will become unstoppable, you will do it and finish it no matter what, you will become a master of movement. Nobody, nothing, no situation can ever stop you because you will just focus on taking actions. The time is now, stop being a chicken, stop judging yourself and do the first step. Stop looking for rewards, stop looking for an easier path because there is no such thing. You have to face the discomfort and pull the trigger with all your might. Always remember that speed will make you forget all of your problems. If you're a doer and not a watcher then you will be able to thrive, as simple as that. So start now and give everything you've got. Embrace the moment, embrace the ugly situation and appreciate it a much as you can. Being fast will make you feel better, it's because you have a purpose now and that is to finish what you've started. Keep going further, keep pushing for more, stop waiting for the right time because it will never come. The right time is now, go and get it, start and do it. Stop being a pussy and just allow yourself to take over. Once you start... keep following through and never stop until you're done, this is simply about being a doer and not a thinker. Change path now, stop thinking and just keep moving forward, do whatever it takes. Most people are slow and stagnant that is why it is easy to become great nowadays if you will never do what they've been doing, go the other way, stop doing what lazy people do and do what successful people does and that is to become fast and unstpppable. Nothing can ever derail you if you're focused on doing it, you will become a finisher, you will become very fast. Focus on speed, never care about the results.
Mar 22, 2025
EXCUSES IS FOR THE WEAK AND LOSERS
I don't have a strong teammate, They don't support me, it's too hard, it's too complicated, it's not for me, I don't have luck, I am too fat, I am weak, life is unfair. These excuses will only make you weaker and weaker everyday, the more you make excuses the more you go down. It is better to be shutting your mouth and doing something than whining and complaining about life. It is what it is, life is not fair, it is hard, some people will treat you unfairly, something will happen to you that you don't deserve but that is life. Don't wait, you have to start now, be fast, if you don't want to become scared again you better start now and do something. Take it one step at a time and never give up. If it's hard face it, if it's uncomfortable do it, as simple as that. The right time is now, you have to stop making excuses or else it will become your habit. You have to do it now, do it even if it is uncomfortable, do it even if you feel so heavy and tired. It's only in your mind, you have to go and tell yourself that you can take actions. Feeling doesn't matter at all, at the end of the day the truth is you can still move despite of feeling bad. You can force your body to take the first step and the next one. Nothing can stop you, it's your softness that is hindering your growth. If you really want it then you better take matters into your own hands and give everything you've got. Never care if it is hard, never care if you don't know it. Just show up and do whatever it takes to get to the next level. If you really want it then you will get it no matter what. The universe will bend, you can shape the world and make an impact to your life. If you want to have a strong mind then stop looking forward to get ready and just do it. Just like an ant, you just do it, you just walk, you just run and you look for a food. If you can't get it so be it but don't ever quit. Excuses will make you soft. You have to go and get it, focus on what you need to do. You already knew what to do you're just making an excuse because you want to feel comfortable, you don't want to work, you don't want to struggle but you can never grow and learn if you don't want to feel the pain. It's ok if it is hard, it's ok if you feel stuck but don't ever think that you will be on that grid forever, you will make a breakthrough no matter what if you don't give up. It's hard because you think that it is hard but if you will enjoy it then you will feel that it is easy. Just take actions no matter what, stop being stagnant, stop being slow, move forward and do whatever it takes to win. Never care about the future, just focus on the now, focus on the present moment and simply give your very best. If you don't want to become weak then stop making excuses.
Mar 21, 2025
DESTROY YOUR COMFORT
Peace of mind comes from within, it doesn't come from the outside. Looking for peace from the outside will create more havoc and chaos. If you want to feel peace, if you want to feel really great... stop looking peace from the outside and start feeling uncomfortable. When you need to do something... do it and never stop. Embrace the pain, embrace the chaos and discomfort. It is what it is. Life will never get better if you're always trying to change your neighbor, people around you, the situation, the level of noise, the attitude of people toward you, your unlucky life etc. The best thing to do is to just embrace life, breathe and simply give your very best. Life is really like this, the trick is to feel uncomfortable all the time doing your responsibilities. Face your fears and never care if you got hurt or not. At the end of the day life will get more uncomfortable if you're shying away from pressures and challenges. You can never hid for life, you have to face it, face the pain, face your fears because that is where freedom is coming from. You will never feel free if you're always trying to protect yourself, you will never win in life if you're always trying to play safe and never take risk. You have to take the risk, stop looking for security and assurance because you are only disappointing yourself by doing that. You need to force yourself to move and stop acting like a chicken because it's making your life worse. Just start and never look back until you're done. You can become something if you will just stay disciplined and committed to the process. Forget the past, forget who you are, forget comfort an start facing the present life now. Do what will make your life a little bit better. Thinking about the past, regretting life, wishing to change what was done is only making you weak, it is not doing any good to your life. You have to be smart in thinking. Use your mind the right way, use your mind to win and not to lose. Don't be afraid to lose, don't be afraid of rejection, don't be afraid to embarrass yourself. Comfort is for the weak, it is for people who doesn't grow. It's a fake medicine, it's an addiction that will stop you from becoming the best version of yourself. If you want to create a better experience... start feeling uncomfortable and destroy the idea of having a relaxed life. Even the presidents were uncomfortable, even the retired millionaire have problems, life is just like that. Your problems get bigger every time you think about it and dwell on it instead of doing something to solve it. If you can't solve it, if you can't remove it then accept it, love it with all your heart and never try to change the things that you cannot change. Strength comes fromt he struggle, it doesn't come from peace and perfection.
Mar 20, 2025
EVERYTHING ELSE WAS JUST A NOISE
When you have a goal and you want it bad enough everything else was just a noise. The noisy neighbor, the disrespectful classmates, the bias coach, the stupid news, the backstabbing from the people you know, the person who owe you something, the unexpected problem... these will all become a noise and you will never hear them because all you want is to win and focus on what you're trying to accomplish. The past and the future will never trouble your mind because you're too focused on the process of trying to make it. You will never care about what people say because all you think is what you're trying to get, you will never even notice that someone is disrespecting or bullying you, you will never notice the toxic people around you, you will never think negatively because you are too focused on your path. Everything will get easier, you will see opportunities instead of problems, you will attract chances instead of obstacles, you will see every difficult situation as an opportunity to rise and get better, nothing can ever stop you anymore because you're changing, your mind is changing, your perspective is changing, nothing can ever make you feel bad anymore because you believe too much in your actions and decisions. If you are a single minded person and you knew you're going to win then you're going to win, as simple as that. You just need to focus and step up your game, you just need to get faster and smarter and success will be assured to you. Train yourself everyday to focus, that's all you need to do. Focus on your goal, don't focus on the result, focus on the process, watch yourself all the time. It's about you, the real goal is about you, it's not about the external it's about the internal. Do you see yourself getting better everyday? are you pushing hard to improve, if yes is your answer then you're in the right path my friend. The real goal and real prize is the person you become for chasing that goal. It's not the money nor the fame, it's how you become, that's the final output. If you are improving and levelling up then you're already a winner. The good news is there is no limit to your potential, you are winning everyday by getting better everyday. Most people want the money, the outcome and that's why they can't get it. This is not about what you get, this is about what you give and the prize will come back to you naturally by changing all the time and pushing yourself to level up no matter what. Everything else was just a noise, you just need to focus on the right things and the right situations will be attracted to you. Focus on being humble, fast, working hard and that's it... you're already a winner in life. This is too simple, you just need to think deeper.
Mar 17, 2025
BEING IN THE MOMENT IS BETTER THAN BEING POWERFUL
Most people want to become powerful, strong, dominant, winner and successful. They don't know that by doing that they are only setting themselves up for a disappointment. They are rushing to get something, they are wishing to become a winner but they don't know that the only way to win is to become slow, in the moment and appreciate what you have. If you're always thinking about what you don't have then you will feel like a loser, as simple as that. Being in the moment is the real power. Wanting to become powerful is weakness, it means you just want the end result, you don't want the process and having this kind of mentality will never give you what you want. If you always wanted the prize and doesn't want to work then you are doomed to fail, as simple as that. The only way to win is to be in the moment and feel what is going on while working your way to the top. Never rush something, don't hope for strength and just embrace your weakness and try to do everything you can with what you have. Don't look for help because it will come naturally, don't wish for strength, comfort or healing because you will only get weaker and weaker by doing that. If you want to win then don't wish for victory, let it come naturally. If you lose you lose so be it but don't ever get desperate because by doing that you are blocking the energy of victory, you are not attracting the right opportunities and situations to become a winner. Just relax while working hard because it will come, it will come on the right time, you just need to trust and do what you need to do with confident and faith.
HOW TO BECOME A STARTER
You can't start because you're thinking too much, your mind was crowded with a lot of thoughts, ideas or fears. If you can't start then it means you're scared of the result, you're too worrying about the future which is not good for your mind, not good for you health and productivity. If you want to become a starter then stop thinking about perfection and focus on the execution. It doesn't matter if it is hard or easy, it doesn't matter if you're perfect or not, just start and keep pushing forward. Striving for perfection is the killer of action, you will never move if you're always striving to become perfect. Instead of striving to become one why not just take actions and do whatever you can to finish something? Don't look for results instead focus on the process. If you're focus on the results you will never get better, you will never be transformed because you're refusing to work hard, you're hiding away from pain and struggle. You will only go through discomfort, pain and hardship. There is nothing you can get from a comfortable situation, it will only make you weak and a diva. It will never bring out the best in you.
Mar 4, 2025
A POWERFUL LIFE ONLY NEED A FEW
You're getting weaker because you need a lot, you think you need more, you're thinking a lot instead of simplifying your life and getting better each day. You will keep on stumbling and struggling if you're not focused on what you really need. Th problem with most people is they want to experience, know and consume everything they see. They think they need to do everything, they think they need to taste everything that is attractive. That is why they keep on losing, that's why they are depressed all the time and couldn't even think right. You only need a few friends, few goals, few activities, few food if you want to become more powerful. Your life is too crowded and distracted that's why your energy was always depleted. Just make your life basic, just work and rest, eat and exercise. Don't buy too much stuffs, don't hang out with a lot of people that doesn't even make you better. Make your life simple so you will have more energy. It's a misconception that being busy, having a lot of things and experiencing a lot of stuffs is the way to live life, you won't have control if you live like this, you are trying to chase something by living like this, you don't need to do what other people do, what they say doesn't matter, they will not become powerful if you stop contradicting them and trying to prove yourself right. Express yourself a little bit and move on, no need to argue with anybody. A powerful life only need a few, a few knowledge that is concentrated, useful and effective. A few friends that are really good, loyal and healthy. A few business that will make you financially free. A few activities that will keep you sane, strong and active. This is enough, you don't need to consume everything and try everything. SO what if you tasted a lot of food and go to a lot of places? it doesn't even make you a better person, it is making you obese and wanting to get more. If you become a consumer then you will try to consume and try everything, you will get jealous of the person that ate the food you haven't tried yet, you will get envy of someone who already went to a place you didn't know. It is an endless chase, a meaningless pursue. It will drain your energy and will rob your peace of mind. Just be happy where you are, if you want to try something then try it but don't feel scarce if you haven't tried what is trending yet. You don't need to become the first, you don't need to feel proud of what you have, it will make you weak because you need people to listen to your stories or experiences which is a form of weakness. An experience is an experience itself, you don't need a witness to feel good that you have tried it, you don't need everyone to know what you're dong or getting. Just be humble and that's enough, be in the moment and never include other people to the equation, you will become uninteresting if you are trying so hard to become interesting. Just keep it to yourself, you don't need everyone to know where you are in life.
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