Detachment from the outcome, detachment from what people say, detachment from the future, detachment from the money. If you can detach yourself from anything as fast as possible then you will become very powerful. Look for something that irritates you or scares you and stop thinking about it, as simple as that. The truth is... you don't need anything but you feel like you need a lot that's why you're getting weaker and weaker. Power is simply psychology, if you can walk away from something that is controlling you or is about to control you then you will become really powerful, if you feel like you have nothing to lose then you will be very free, how good was that? At the end of the day you are the one who is making yourself weak by attaching yourself to something that you can even live without. You can live without food for three months so why worry about it? you can live without money forever so why worry about it? you can live without any friend, you can live without car, you can live without anything.
Freedom from outcome is the most powerful mindset you can ever have, the pressure will go away. Stop getting too excited with something that is not important in your life, stop getting too scared of something that doesn't hold your life. Your boss is not the one who's feeding you... it's your service, money is not making you survive... it's your tenacity, the real power is within you if you will just believe in yourself and accept that you an overcome anything. It's about simply surviving, life is simply about living today, everything else was just a bonus. Detach from something that makes you weak, stop giving it too much importance, you need to focus on making your mentality much better and stronger.
The more you attach yourself to something the less powerful you become, you become weak and controlled, you become stiff and predictable, you will get manipulated by something that controls you. You have to loosen up and think detach yourself from the outcome. You will never feel abundant if you're so attached to something thinking that it's the only thing that will make you happy. There are lot of things that will make you happy, your happiness was not based on one thing only, there are millions of activities that can make you happy. You need to feel abundant, if something is making you feel really bad then detach from it, by doing that you will feel more powerful and free. Freedom will make you feel powerful, the more you feel free the stronger you will become. You will feel faster, smarter, stronger, more creative if you will allow yourself to detach from anything or anyone that is controlling you everyday. Don't let the fear of losing something or someone immobilize you, always remember that you don't need anything to feel strong and happy, if you can have this kind of mindset then you will become really unstoppable.
So what if you fail, got rejected, got terminated, left out and ignored? so what if you got disrespected? you only need to detach from the thought that you're a victim and you will become powerful again. Once you learn to be alone then you will have more, once you appreciate yourself then you will become a different beast. It's all in the mind, power is all in the mind. You need to learn how to control your mind and you will become invincible.