There will be times when all of your works are not working, you're failing every now and then, your business is failing, your plan is not working, you're a bust. People doesn't believe you anymore, clients were afraid of you, your wife is nagging about money, your friends were laughing at you because you can't figure out simple things that may work. What are you going to do if this scenario happens to you? don't lose hope, there's only on answer for that... KEEP BELIEVING YOURSELF. Never doubt yourself for a second, never doubt your work, it's a process. You're in a struggling stage right now, soon the storm will be over and you will be able to see the sunshine again.
Success is just a matter of believing in yourself even if the whole world is against you, it's just a matter of not giving up on yourself. Every time you help yourself, every time you do something positive for your life even if it's only a small work, a small job or something.... you are getting stronger. You should be ashamed of yourself if you give up on yourself. You are your own friend, your shadow is the only thing that walks beside you, you are alone in your journey so don't be afraid if you're not getting love or support from other people, don't be afraid if you're alone doing your thing, keep believing in yourself and you will succeed in just a matter of time.
The key is to never stop believing in yourself, only entertain the thoughts of you winning and thriving during pressure times, only entertain thoughts that makes you feel alive. So don't worry about anything else, just push and push and push. Stay with the grind, keep hustling forever if you need to. Don't try to control their thoughts about you, never try hard to impress them. You don't need to impress people, you just need to impress yourself. Focus on your work, focus on what you can control and amplify your beliefs with small actions that you can take. You should believe yourself every time you are moving.
Respect yourself, you need to love yourself with all your heart. Believe in your skills and abilities. Always remember that you can adapt to any situation, you can become better everyday if you work hard and push yourself to the limits. It is what it is, it's not going to be easy but it is possible. Take the smallest percentage of winning that you have and do the impossible. Prove to yourself that you can focus, stay locked in, stay committed, always believe in yourself. You have what it takes to win, never count yourself out, never underestimate yourself, you're the only one who understand yourself so keep moving forward and never quit. They don't know what's inside of your heart, they don't know how tough you are, you know yourself better than others so stop listening to them, keep the faith alive, keep your journey alive.
You don't need anyone's approval, you are the authority, you are the boss of your own life. So what if they don't agree with your decision? so what if they are all against you? you don't need their company, you can win by yourself. And when you're already winning... those bums will kiss your ass, they will ask you how did you do it, they will pretend that they support you from the very beginning.