You thought once you bang that girl you will get that confidence, happiness or satisfaction. You though once you bought that shoes you will become a good player. You thought once you tasted that food you will become happy. You thought once you bought that car people will respect you. You thought once you earn that money you will feel secured and rich but it didn't happen. You still feel the lack, you still feel the unsatisfaction, you're still scared of the future, you're still not happy with your life. The truth is nothing will make you feel whole. You will still feel scared all the time, you will still feel unworthy because you based your happiness and strength on the external and not on the internal. You're not lacking something, what's wrong with your life is you're turning into a consumer instead of a doer or creator. Strength comes from the discipline in your mind and body. If you want to feel control you need to be disciplined with your actions, feelings and thoughts. Your thoughts, decisions and focus is what makes you happy, sad, strong or weak. You can feel powerful now by trying to do something that will make you better. You are in control of your life, you just need to keep getting better each day and do whatever it takes to get to the next level. If you don't want to feel weak again stop relying on things, other people, success, praises and comfort to make you happy. Learn how to adapt, improvise an tame your feelings, learn how to stop reacting and never let the external things fool you. It's strength in the mind, it's not wanting anything that will make you happier and stronger. The power is in not wanting anything to become powerful. Power is taken not given, not granted it is earned through hard work and making sacrifices. Believe that yourself is enough to make yourself happy, you are complete, you just need to grow, you just need to extend yourself and expand as much as you can without pressuring yourself. You don't need anything at all, you just need to accept that your emotions is your responsibility and you don't need to feel powerful by having something first.
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