The real happiness is being satisfied of what you have and being appreciative, that's the real happiness. Comparison is the thief of joy, if you will not compare yourself to others, if you will not envy them then you will become really happy. You become unhappy because you're always looking for what you don't have. Happiness is just a feeling, it comes and it goes. Do you think the people you admire on social media were really happy? they're not they're just faking it. Even if they have the money, luxury or everything you want they're still not happy, if they are then why will still they show it? why do they need to flaunt it? they still need validation and approval and the moment you need it... you will become fragile, you will become weak, your happiness will depend on other people and that is not real happiness, that is attachment, attachments brings pain and misery. If you need someone to like you or approve you before you become happy then you are very weak. Happiness is simply living, breathing and giving your best. It's not bad to chase or dream something, it is ok to work hard for it but don't even cry or feel incomplete if you can't have it. If you really gave your all to get it then that is enough, this is a journey, it's not what you accumulate or get... its what you become. If you don't need anything to become happy then you're really happy. The comments of other people are fleeting, you don't need it, you are here to enjoy the process and live it one day at a time. If you need something before you become happy then you are fooling yourself. Real happiness comes from the inside and not from the outside. It is what it is, people are stupid enough to control their emotions, they don't study themselves that is why they can't become happy. Pleasures, short dopamine, instant gratification will never give you happiness, it is fooling you, it is making you weak and distracted, you are not living if you keep on looking for comfort and instant gratification because all it does is patch the hole in your heart but it really doesn't give the cure. Don't explain yourself, don't try to change people, don't try to enforce your beliefs... that is how to become happy and satisfied. You don't need them to believe you, you don't need to impress them... you just need to be appreciative of what you have and keep fighting for what you want. Be silent when you get it, you don't need them to know that you are making it in life. Be simple, be humble and never depend on anything to make you happy. Just be quiet and live your life, as simple as that. Because being you, going deep within and not letting anything or anybody affect you creates more stability, it will make you stronger and happier. This is very simple, you just need to train your mind to stop needing anything.. that is when abundance flows.
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